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    DG HB9 Facebook Close... with questions

    I'm noticing that girls keep giving me their Facebook instead of an actual number. To me, it's either a polite blow off or it's safer than giving out their actual number.

    Today I went into a cafe with a contract painting that's almost complete. I sat down with her and she completely stopped what she was doing to talk to me. And she was really impressed by my talent. We got onto the subject of leisure and talked about travelling and seemed to be hitting it off. She qualified herself heavily: she used to be a former runway model now working as a chef to pay her way into art school so she can become a tattoo artist. We bantered back about cool, awesome shit we each like to do. We were into the same stuff. We were talking about renting dirt bikes and tearing up the road all oner the city.

    There was twenty minutes of good conversation there with her asking me lots of questions, sharing about herself, and lots of animated facial expressions and gestures.

    I slipped some paper to her and told her to write her number down before she left. Instead, she gave me her Facebook. I'm searching it up now and someone with a similar name comes up except there's no info or even pictures. She may have just politely brushed me off... even though she was a green light. Very confusing.

    How can I improve on this? Also what's up with this Facebook brushoff? Girl was a green light. I don't get that. On the bright side, I almost didn't go into the cafe to talk to her. And she was an 8 / 9.

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    Okay after talking to my buddy, I'm thinking it's because the close itself was sudden and clunky. I need to lead up to it and talk about us doing shit together. She was pretty damn hot and had - MMM - love those tits. Gotta say this is the first time I've opened a black girl before. I'd like to compare her to someone... I'd say that rapper, Brandi (face-wise).

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    I only read the first sentence of your post and that was enough for me to answer. If you're getting Facebook or emails when you ask for her number, your interaction just didn't go well. Simple.

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    Dude that wasn't helpful at all. That was just lazy. Simple.
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    These days people are obsessed with social networks and it's easier for girls to add you on Facebook whether it's because that's what they always do to people they meet or because they don't like giving their details out to people they just met.

    Best bet say no you don't have Facebook or just get your phone out or ask if she's texts

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    Thanks CMan, that was really helpful. And it also got me thinking. Disqualifying facebook. Saying you dont do it. I like your suggestion about asking if she texts.
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    Lazy, I agree. I went back and read the entire post... And guess what, my response is the same. If you go for a number and you get a Facebook or an email, she is blowing you off. And even if you bypass the Facebook by saying you don't have it and do get her number (which btw is a good play), but good luck trying to get her to actually respond or pick up when you follow up. Yes, it sucks, but it's the nature of the game. Don't sit and dwell on what you believe was a solid close, because it wasn't... Go find another.

    Better?

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    If I think I have either not done a good enough job or didn't have enough time to do a good job sometimes I will go for a facebook close instead of a number close as a last resort. If they don't use Facebook they will often offer up a number instead.

    Facebook closes seldom bear fruit but it's one more option to keep the game going if it looks like it's going to fail anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bullseye3 View Post
    Lazy, I agree. I went back and read the entire post... And guess what, my response is the same. If you go for a number and you get a Facebook or an email, she is blowing you off. And even if you bypass the Facebook by saying you don't have it and do get her number (which btw is a good play), but good luck trying to get her to actually respond or pick up when you follow up. Yes, it sucks, but it's the nature of the game. Don't sit and dwell on what you believe was a solid close, because it wasn't... Go find another.

    Better?
    Actually, yes. It just confirms what I thought. I like how you're straight up about it. I like how you say my suggestion is a good play. I don't dwell on this stuff. On the contrary, I love the process and the small victories. You seem experienced, so do you have any tips for number closing? I don't give a shit about her. I just care about fixing this plateau.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stealthy View Post
    If I think I have either not done a good enough job or didn't have enough time to do a good job sometimes I will go for a facebook close instead of a number close as a last resort. If they don't use Facebook they will often offer up a number instead.

    Facebook closes seldom bear fruit but it's one more option to keep the game going if it looks like it's going to fail anyway.
    Here's why I dislike Facebook closes:

    - You have to restart the interaction from scratch. You add each other, screen, make chit chat, and work out logistics. This is why it is shit. I used to buy into the fallacy that Facebook was a reasonable bridge between not knowing her and getting her phone number. Because getting your foot in the door is better than nothing. But this is fallacious. There really is just another girl around the corner equally just as awesome.

    The matter for me is not... why did I fail. It's...

    What can I do to make her give me her number instead of a Facebook or email

    - You open
    - You have attraction
    - You have common interests and she's qualifying herself.
    - You're awesome. She's awesome.
    - She has to leave twenty minutes later, so you take her number suddenly.

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