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    Gym Game

    I do quite well in my city, Montreal, for night game and get consistent pulls, although I have serious "Approach Anxiety" during the day at the gym.

    For a background, I am usually one of the most muscular men in the gym. I am a varsity personal trainer and boxer. (My avatar is me taken last month) I just feel awkward approaching women in the gym.

    Does anyone have a strategy they have? Possibly going up and negging by saying they aren't using the machine right...[I feel like an asshole when I've tried this because no matter how much I try to joke, they take me seriously because of my muscle tone]

    I've also learned I can't neg anything physical because again I come off as an asshole. There are instances where women are looking at me and it's quite obvious. Please any help would be grateful as I'm very interested in pursuing women who take great care of their body.



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    Personally, I never approach at the gym, so I may not be the best for proven techniques. To me, it's all business when I'm there; plus I have friends and training partners at my gym that I wouldn't risk losing because of an approach gone wrong. If you don't follow that mentality, my recommendations:

    Don't ever neg a girl in the gym; negging is weak game all together. Think of how self conscious she probably is in a place like the gym to being with.

    Since your obviously in shape, don't do or saying anything that can remotely be viewed as trying to show off. No opinion openers either... You clearly know your way around the gym. And a random opinion on a non-workout topic is just awkward.

    Don't ask them for a spot as an opener, that's just plain stupid... Who asks a 115llb girl for a spot when your lifting more than their actual weight.

    I would just go direct and say you wanted to meet her. If they are checking you out as you claim, just keep it simple.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bullseye3 View Post
    Personally, I never approach at the gym, so I may not be the best for proven techniques. To me, it's all business when I'm there; plus I have friends and training partners at my gym that I wouldn't risk losing because of an approach gone wrong. If you don't follow that mentality, my recommendations:

    Don't ever neg a girl in the gym; negging is weak game all together. Think of how self conscious she probably is in a place like the gym to being with.

    Since your obviously in shape, don't do or saying anything that can remotely be viewed as trying to show off. No opinion openers either... You clearly know your way around the gym. And a random opinion on a non-workout topic is just awkward.

    Don't ask them for a spot as an opener, that's just plain stupid... Who asks a 115llb girl for a spot when your lifting more than their actual weight.

    I would just go direct and say you wanted to meet her. If they are checking you out as you claim, just keep it simple.
    Good input. Very true about potentially burning bridges. I'll try going direct and maybe using functional openers later this week. Thanks brother.

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    I have a friend working on his game at the gym, as you know it comes with minor drawbacks, negs are easily over the top and there is a tonne of social pressure.

    If you are getting IOI's before you approach you are in a great position to move quickly into qualification.

    A subtle compliment on her technique with a DHV spike about your Personal training background while noting you have had many trainee's struggle for months to develop good technique will get you face to face with room to move. Find out one thing about her unrelated to gym activities and you have a great qualifier and are no longer just talking to her because she is hot and healthy.

    Taking her over to do a similar exercise to the one she's working on but likely has not seen before will pay dividends and create more opportunities for conversation and qualifications.

    The key to gym game I believe is getting her out of the gym as soon as possible before you wind up a gym buddy.

    Heavy qualification with DHV spikes as needed, a little comfort, dragging her around the gym a little amongst some good humorous conversation should position you perfectly to unleash the beast..."There's a great milk bar around the corner with smoothies/protein shakes come with me and check it out".

    Once you have her out of that high pressure environment it should be easy street for you.

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    Oh and one other thing, don't fall into the trap of teaching/coaching her too much. Women who invite and seem to like it when you teach them something are being polite and showing good game.

    Teaching something is a qualifier(you are giving them a chance to show how nice they are by following your advice), they will feel better about the interaction if you teach them a little but it will kill the interaction if you go over the top.

    This only applies to teaching her, letting her see you teach other people will increase your value.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Breezee View Post
    Good input. Very true about potentially burning bridges. I'll try going direct and maybe using functional openers later this week. Thanks brother.
    How did this go, man? Really curious.

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