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My problem is i have encountered the ...
Buyers Remorse from Day Pickup - Thoughts ?
My problem is i have encountered the dreaded buyers remorse situation. I took a cute thing out for a drink, got her attracted, built comfort and then kissed ( but also used my TONGUE, oh no..) and now she is not responding to my texts. Some background info..
I went out with my lithuanian mate around the Trafalga sq area and had a look around for a nice set. I spotted a pair of cute girls and used my 'sorry im late, what have I missed line' - try it sometime. turned out they are lithuanian too, kinda random but helped the situation. After 10 minutes i got my girls number and hinted to grabbing a drink some time.
After exchanging a few texts the day after, we met in a pub 2 days after and enjoyed a long - 5 hr convo. I managed to attract her as I got IOI's, she was very quiet and shy but i carried the convo as if its no big deal. She even said we should do salsa class together and i did a lot of future projection. I hinted to going ice skating on Saturday. Spent some time on comfort too, after a while we sat quite close and after some time of holding hands and kino, i went in for the kiss. She said no and i sat further aside again, carried on with straight & short convo's. She gave me more IOI's, took her jacket off blatantly trying to show me her breasts as i told her to take it off before but she didn't want to as it was cold. I have to add we had about 3 shots sambuca and 3 ciders each.
I moved in again when the temperature was right, talked a little and then went in for the kiss, she didn't do anything, i told her to kiss me and then she did. I was about to pull back again after 5 seconds but she pulled me back in again. That's when I used my tongue and just snogged her for a while.
So anyway, we kissed and talked and kissed (tongue), then started walking back to the tube, kissed goodbye (normal kiss) and when i got home i txted her but no reply.
1st message- "nice meeting you..sorry you lost the game, maybe next time !" (we played a game for drinks)
2nd message - 2 days after "Hello salsa-buddy. Ice skating saturday @ 4? No drinking this time please, I need to behave .."
no reply again.
If I lose out on her its not a massive deal, it does however bug me that I got buyers remorse... or IS IT ? Did i overstep which is the reason for no reply ?
Well your problem was your needy text messages. They were screaming neediness
Try calling instead of texting.
I think there was also too much kissing on the first date. At least the tongue part. I don't initiate tongue until it's actually on a seduction location or then if it's just randomly on a night club.
Hope this one helped!
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thanks, thats what i thought. my texting sux tbh. How long should i have waited approx ? I just dont want to come off as a player if i dont say something along the lines of 'nice to have met you' if you know what i mean. But yeh will call instead that way i dont hv to deal with all the texting bollocks. cheers mate
Originally Posted by StyleTiger
it seems to me like she dirent really want to kiss you maybe she feels that the relationship is going faster then what shes expected and your pushing it so basically she dosen't know what she wants with you next time you go out if that happens againe show the woman your not needy don't try to kino an d let her game you sometimes its better to relax and watch the show then you making moves where shes uncofortable
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