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    Help!! Saw this 10(hottest chick I've seen this year), need advice!

    Hey there everyone,

    Long Post, please read it all and comment!

    So this happened yesterday, I was going to my dentist in an elevator and this smoking hot blonde chick(think top-model type, I'd say she was 5'9, as I'm 5'10) entered the elevator and stood beside me. I was going to the 8th floor and she eventually got off on the 6th floor. Unfortunately, I did not talk to her at that time because I was involved in an important phone call at that time. During and after my appointment, I could not stop thinking about this chick.

    Here's the thing, I going to have my dentist again this coming Wednesday. I'm thinking about approach her floor after my appointment. This is what I think, I had caught a glimpse of her last name so I'm planning to head to her floor and ask her front desk whether there is a Dr. xyz(her) on this floor. Then I will ask if she is in, if she is there and she comes up then I will have to "direct approach her" right there with I'm sure a lot of people around. <<-- Scenario 1

    Scenario 2 ----->>>>But if my target isn't there at the time of my visit, I was thinking of leaving her a note. I don't know if this sounds determined or desperate so I would need your opinion guys.
    I am thinking something like this in the note:

    [
    Hey Ms xyz,

    I wanted to tell you that I think you're absolutely adorable but I couldn't find you. If you're fun and friendly, we should do coffee/ice cream, you do like ice cream, right?

    P.s. I like to laugh and smile, hope you do too.
    P.p.s Please return my pen!

    Cyrwr1 (cyrwr1's email)
    (date of message)
    ]


    I would just give this to the front desk with a pen clipped to it. I don't have time to wait for her return and I'm not in that area a lot.

    Advice will be greatly appreciated if you can answer these questions for me:


    1) Would I come off desperate or creepy doing any of these?
    2) What are some warm-up exercises I can do to pump myself up for scenario 1 ?(because I don't want to flushed and be intimidated with all those people)
    3) Any ideas,comments for the note part, should I leave one ??

    I feel I have only about 5 minutes of my time and a cheap pen to lose, any comments/feedback will be greatly appreciated! thanks!



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    Hey man,
    So this will be a long post too, so good luck in reading.
    First of all, remember that excuses are only for losers. Yeah, me too, I am making excuses sometimes but it can not be acceptable. I think that your first excuse was your phone call at elevator. It was possible that you can finalize the conversation by simply saying smt like your phone is out of coverage area and start to talk with that HB. Anyway, past is past. But next time if you really see smt. that you want, close that f*ck'in phone lol

    For your Scenario one, it can work and also can not work too.
    It depends to u. I don't know your background but are u really capable of doin' a direct game.? Yeah, you have to be really confident and %100 direct. Direct game is only ok if you can control your acts and won't be needy. Also you have to think about the location. Even you can do a good direct game, you will be at her ground, at her office location. So she will have more control than you. Do not forget, this is not a bar or club. This is real World. If since now you have done direct gaming and good results than it would work this time to. But if not, there is a high risk of lose. But in any condition you should try and see the result cause if you won't try, there won't be any result and you will only lose.

    For your scenario 2, sorry but it seems really desperate. Girls generally think that the men who are not capable of talking gives this kind of notes. This only shows that you don't have enough confidence. If u are incredibly in love so maybe it can be acceptable but generally she will be flattered but will see u also as a AFC.
    Also if you will use a note, please never, never , NEVER, use e-mail. You have used your cell phone even instead of talking to her in the elevator. So why r u trying to give her your e-mail instead of your mobile number this time? Always go for the numbers. E-mails can be easily ignored.
    As a secondary scenario, you can try the elevator option again but it will be really hard to catch. So if you really want her, you can try to catch her while she is getting out of the building. So you will be on the street or on a coffee shop. Than the conditions will be equal and you will have more chance. The only thing is you have to have enough patience to catch her while she is leaving.

    For your last phrase, please change your mind cause if you can only risk a cheap pen and a paper than you can only get a cheap girl and nothing more

    Good luck.
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    @striker_o,

    Cannot hang up a work-related call. I realize that if the chick is there, I have to do it right in the office area. What exercises would I need to ignore viewers and bystanders. I know she will have more control and I need to bring my A game there and can't wimp out even she shows up. I have never been on that floor before so chances are even if I get denied, I'll still be the talk of the floor . But I can't think negatively, I need to go in there and click with her in the time we're together. I'm pretty sure that she or most people has never encountered this before at work. So any ideas how I can get pumped up?

    In addition, there are thousands of people in the building( I do not work/live in that area) so the elevator wait thing isn't going to work and I am not going to wait for her to come out. I have work and she does too. It makes little sense to go after just one that hard. That is a low that I'm not going to wait for besides, there are multiple entrances to the building.

    If I leave a number, do you think a girl will have the courage to text/call a stranger?? E-mails kind of protect their privacy and I don't want my number floating around, who knows how many people can read it before it even reaches her or does?

    I meant it that I have very little to lose(pen+5mins) but a hot girl to gain.

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    Dude man!! I can't believe you are even entertaining the pen/number scheme. No guts, no glory! If she is truly as hot as you said, there is zero chance that she's gonna call you. And trust me, you are not the only guy who has left her a number. There are probably athletes, CEOs, moguls who have left their business card with her.

    Go direct, but with one caveat - you don't need to do it in front of everyone. Just say, "Hey! I just need to talk to you for a second, but let's step away from the crowd." It just need to be 10 feet away from the crowd. It doesn't have to be in a private room or anything. Making a scene in front of everyone may work, but I think it's more for the movies (think Top Gun). Practically, just go up, be up front, but still socially savvy.

    Don't you DARE do that pen and paper non sense!!!!

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    Hey man,
    U can hang up anytime and can say that there was a problem with your phone etc... , no excuse, play like a champion if you wanna win.
    As I said u should be really direct and also not needy. If she will sense like you couldn' thing smt. else than her since 1 week than u will ge nothing. I don't know you are a day gamer or night but for exercises, I don't think that you have enough time. On this forum and reality I have seen people who spends months to be better and better. Only by playing more you can be better. And with that girl, your experience should be come from your prrvious experiences. So basically you don't have so much thing to do as experience. Maybe the thing that you can do is to really exactly know whay tou gonna say or as SOUL says "conversation mapping" So at least at first minutes you will have more conversation. But do not make it like unentertaining or smt. like so unnatural.
    If you leave a note, your chance is less than %1 cause she won't even remember you and as I said, she will think that you don't have courage to talk with her. If you really want it, you have to go and talk with her.
    To ignore the viewers, I suggest you to think like : "It is only about me and her. All other can only look but they can never do smt. more. They envy me and wanna do this too but they don't have g*ts for it. I am the one know and I shouldn't care about others cause it is not others who gonna have her at the end, it is me " Generally your mentality should be smt; like that. So this is about you and her, not the others. Just forget them, thet have no meaning.
    Also you can do it as @projectX said. You can ask a couple of minutes of her and take her a little bit away from crowd. So this can work too.
    Good luck, go and get her. Do not think about the f*ckin' note again if you really want that HB. Or else someone will have her and burn your note while f*ckin' her
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    The letter does sound desperate. Besides that, if she works there and uses the elevator everyday there is a good possibility that she won't even remember you. And if she doesn't even remember you the chances of her calling or emailing you are slim to none. She probably gets hit on all the time and is not likely to invest in some complete stranger that she doesn't even remember.

    I think the only option you have is the direct game option. And it's going to have to be some flawless, James Bond type shit for it to work. Think about the approach and develop a solid routine before you decide to give this a go. Think about what you want to say to her and make sure there is whit and humor in your routine. Practice the routine in the mirror concentrating on your body language and tonality.

    I'm interested to see how it goes. Good luck.
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    Ok, I will omit the note part. So I will focus on "gaming her" if she's available that day. If she isn't there, then tough luck and I have to take it in. I gotta tell myself to learn from this in future-like situations.

    Anything you guys suggest I read/do before doing the "approach"?

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    To do a direct approach, you do not need to read so many things cause it is natural and you will directly say what you think. Also direct is not a canned material so you can not find so many things or types of direct approach document. But if you wanna really read smt, you can read some post related to SOUL direct opening. There you will see a good example. Good luck.
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    Hey man,

    I defiantly agree, the note probably wont work, if she's hot she's got options and won't bother with someone she's never met before. Scenario one could work but your gonna have to have some balls and confidence and chi in perfect balance and shit lol. And beforehand the best thing to do is get some approaches in. If you want to read some inspiring stuff too that could help, but the most important thing IMO is to get the social juices flowing and the confidence revved up by approaching like 5 girls, the first approach of the day is almost always the worst. So go to a mall or somewhere near by and just approach until you start feeling that confident, relaxed vibe and then go talk to her.

    Don't put too much pressure on this approach either. If your too worried about getting this one chick's number you'll probably get nervous and not approach as well. Remember there are thousands of chicks out there, no reason to think you HAVE to get this one.

    Hope this helps

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    Alright guys, thanks for the advice! Will prep some game before the direct approach!@

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