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    Quote Originally Posted by Runner87 View Post
    October 27, Thursday - Day 5

    # of approaches: 3
    Location: Target near my place at 1:30pm

    So I decided to go out in the afternoon and doing some approach at Target near my place.

    HB6.5 Color dress- Got out of the car and saw her walked toward her car and open her with, "Hey, can you tell me the time?". She searched her purse for the her cell and took off her shade and tell me the time. I thanked her and eject.

    HB8 Tall white girl - She walked toward me inside of Target and I approached her with, "Hey, do you know where Starbuck is?". She told me its on the front of the store. I thanked and and eject. I didn't know there is a starbuck inside this target or any target in general.

    HB7 Short dress - Walked around a bit and saw her pushing her shopping cart and approach she asked for the time. She told me her phone battery was dead. I thanked her anyway and eject.

    It is just so fucking funny the shit I come up with in my head of the excuses to not approach some of the girls in there. "She was looking at the products, a worker is working toward me and will see me talk to her, she saw me and walked away and will be weird if I approach". I was laughing at myself inside my head and these thoughts came up. I need to not give a fuck about these pussy excuses but it probly take some time.

    Will approach more set later this afternoon before I head to work.
    The next step is to start building those conversations. Give her a compliment, say anything.



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    @jack - I will after 7 days of just approaching.

    October 27, Thursday - Day 5 (continued)

    # of approaches: 2
    Location: Mall @ 6:20pm

    Stalled for sometime and after 10 mins, approach my first set.

    HB7.5 - Saw her walked toward me and asked for the time and thanked her then ejected.

    HB6 - Saw her standing around in front of Target playing with her phone and asked for the time then eject.

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    Next time ask for something ridiculous, or for a place where you are standing in front of! For example, ask a girl standing next to the starbucks where the starbucks is. Or even easier, ask people for the time while wearing a watch. Most people wont even comment you on stuff like that, it's just a small and fairly easy step further. Keep it up Bro!

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    @ derick and Breoder, thanks for pushing me.

    October 28, Friday - Day 6

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Mall @ 6:30pm

    Felt sleepy on my way driving to the mall. I figured I would just do one direct approach and get the heck out of there and nap for about 10 mins in my car on the parking lot then head to work as a reward.

    HB7.5 Asian Ponytail - Spotted her walking by herself and decided that girl is my target for the day. I tried to catch up to her and noticed she was about to enter a store nearby and inside my head I was thinking of fucking great. But then she stop for a moment and I finally made my way near her. I heart skipped a beat. I tap her and she seem to be a little surprised. "Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to scared you." She said its OK. I followed up with ,"I saw you over there and i tho you kidda cute and I had to come and say hi". She smiled. This girl then introduced herself saying her name was Mary(not her real name but I want to keep thing confidential). I was a little surprised. I said my name and she extended her hand for a handshake. I held her hand a bit longer than I usually does before letting go. I asked how was her day. She said good. I noticed her slightly moving toward the store and I said, "Where are you going, I still want to talk to you." She thanked me for the compliment and disappear into the store. I did my approach and I got a sweet reward 10 mins nap. Well worth it.

    What I want to improve:
    Still be more consistent in the approach, no pussy excuses, and dont give a fuck about anything else except the girls.

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    Good job on the direct approach!

    Regarding your question - I've done at least 200 direct approaches now since I started my journal. Probably another 100 before that. The problem with the earlier 100 approaches was that I was always taking breaks, making excuses that I have other obligations. I never really improved much because every time I take a break from it, coming back it feels like starting over again.

    I am sure you can get to a good enough level that you can stop gaming for 6 month, and come back and pick it up right away. However, since we don't have all this internalized, we really have to suck it up, keep going, until approaching girls become a second nature.

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    @project x - thanks man.


    October 28, Friday - Day 7

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Mall @ 2:40pm ~

    Just got back from the mall. I'll just gonna post the direct approach I did from now on because the "asking for time/direction" I will consider that as warmups.

    I probly did about 6 warmups and try to keep the momentum doing and my social state up. Spotted few potential targets but I am still afraid of what people around me might think. Pretty gay to be honest.

    HB8.5 Nice tits - After I did my warmup sets, I warm around for about 20 mins looking for the restroom for a leak. Afterward, I know i am in trouble. Feeling disappointed about my self. I decided to head back home... but i then think to myself I would hate my self even more if i couldn't direct approach at least a set today. I went back for a second round. I walked back into the mall entrance and saw a couple of sets i could approach but there are some people around and chicken out at the last second. Walked abit more and saw her. She got a nice body, short, wearing a black t-shirt and short. She was bombing! I know instantly I had to approached her. I made my way over the stairs and caught up with her. Opened my month, "Excuses me", waiting for her to look at me without making any physical contact. She looked at me, "I saw you walking by and you look great" in a low volume/non-commanding voice due to not saying anything in the last 30mins of walking around. She thanked me and still walking while facing me. I follow up with, "what is your name?". I extended my hand expecting her to come back for a hand shake but she said she was late work and sorry. I am so glad i did my direct approach for the day and am happy with myself.

    What i want to improve:
    Still not give a shit about what might people think of me when trying a direct approach!! This is holding me back from going direct. Gonna work on this<<<<

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    October 30, Sunday -Day 8

    # of approaches: about 10~
    Location: Mall @ 3:20pm ~

    Today is a very successful day I must said. I got 2 number close and I am very happy my determination finally have some result!

    Help out at work for about an hour and head over to the mall doing some direct approach. Headed over to the food court getting something to eat. Afterward, I walked for about 15mins without approach anyone. Not asking for the time/direction what so ever.

    HB7.5 Married - Saw her by the directory on my way down the escalator and went over. Delivered my usually direct approach line and she told me she was married and i looked at her finger, and there a ring with diamond on it.

    HB8 Short Asian in Black- Walked for a bit and saw this cute short Asian and i approached her, stood my ground, with the usually direct line and got the thank you and walked toward the escalator.

    HB8 Cute white girl - Walked a bit more and saw her and get her attention, stood my ground, and delivered my direct line. She stopped. Talked for about 2 mins. She was on her way to work. I complimented on her necklace. The whole interaction, she seem to looking around and lot focusing on me. I did the same suggesting I do not care as well. She said she was late for work and I said we should hang out sometime. She said sure, I handed her my cell and she punched in her number. I asked if she was a minor and she asked me why I would think that. I said you guys may look mature but are still minor. She said she isn't and I said oh good. I bet this is a flake but I will try and text her anyway for practice.

    HB7.5 - Walked abit and saw my next target. Approached with the direct line. She didn't hook and thanked me. <- cant remember what really happened.

    At this point, I was in my car and my wing said he was in the area and I came back for another round.

    HB7.5 Tall,cute black girl - Right after need up with my wing, we walked abit and saw my target. I went over and used my direct line. She was completely hook and her facial expression was like overjoy with excitement. We talked for about 4 mins. She is going to university studying Psychology. She was on the mall to taking a survey on relationship. She asked me if I want to take one and I said, "NO!". At this point, my mind went blank and said, "ummm...... that all i got". I pretty much said this out loud. She was still interested talking to me and asked but I do for fun. I said I am very into fitness, go to the gym and ran 5 miles yesterday. I told her I had to get and would like to hang out sometime. She was pleased and said for sure. I handed my cell to her and punched in her number and I ejected. Afterward, I completely forgot her name. Actually, I forgot her name right after she said it lol.

    At this point, I dont really remember all the interaction i had with the girls but I will try and type whatever i remember. My wing didn't want to approach any because he just wanted to relax for the day due to personal problems.

    HB7 - Saw her right after i got the number and run up to her and open her with my direct line. She stopped and we chat a bit and I eject.

    We decided to stop at one spot with the most traffic and be stationary and approached who ever we like. We did this before and it worked pretty well. At this point, I pushed my wing enough so he would do this with me and it worked. We had a blast with our approaches.

    HB8 cute petite white girl with pink high light - She walked toward me while I was standing around and stopped her with my direct line. We talked a little. She is studying IT and i got my degree in IT and I talked about that. After we talked about that a little and i immediately realized that not a good conversion to have with a girl because it is boring as shit. I changed the subject to what she like to do for fun. She said she basically dont do anything fun because she is busy with 2 jobs and school. At this point, saying she is in a hurry and had to go. I said we should hang out sometime and she said she is very busy with work and school and would not have anytime. I said we could always go skinny dipping at midnight. She laugh and i eject. I really like this girl too.

    HB7 skinny asian - Saw her going down the escalator. I ran over and said my direct line. She didn't seem very impressed. I still trying to make conversation with her asking about her day. What she is doing at the moment. She said she is actually meeting her boy friend and i said i actually have a wife and 2 kids at home (credit to Jon). She told me that is exactly I should be at home.

    HB8.5 Blonde - Saw her walked up the escalator and I ran over before she get on. I opened her with my direct line. She thanked and and i asked what she is doing. She said she was meeting her boy friend. "No you're not", "Yes I am" she said. "No you're not". "OK". I know, very immature of me but thats what I could come up with. She walked up the escalator while I was down there watching her slow doing up.

    i probly did more set but i dont remember all the details but I had lots of fun with my wing. In the last 15 mins or so, we decided to go up the escalator and set on a nearby bench and trying to stop girls walking by. We actually got 2 girl stopped and came over and talked to us. Well, to my wing anyway. We had some good laughs about this.

    Now, onto text/phone game <<<<

    What I want to improve:
    Be more consistent with my approach when sarging alone. Be less hesitant. I saw some sets i would like to approach but still have AA and its not going away...yet.

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    You did a lot of approach and I'm glad for you! You're really taking a big step towards improving.

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    @jack thanks man

    October 31, Monday -Day 9

    # of approaches: 1
    Location: Mall @ 6:00pm ~

    Went over to the mall trying to do some direct approach but only manged to do one.

    HB8 short hair - Saw her looking at the greeting card. I hesitated for about 2 secs and the "fuck it" inside my head and I came over and she looked up at me. She was sitting down on the floor. "I saw you over there and think you are cute and i want to come and say hi". I noticed the diamond ring in her finger. A fake smile on her face. I didn't care and follow up with what is your name. I extended my hand down for her to shake. I said she got a man's hand shake. Asked her about her day and if she is getting ready for halloween. She asked me if she can helped me with something. I said I just want to come over and say hi. At this point, i said look like you dont want me to be here so I will leave. Pretty fucking afc of me saying that. She wished me a good day.

    Walked around the mall for 10 mins and its pretty empty. Kids with their parents trick-or-treating around the mall. There are about a couple of sets I want to approach but still worried about others around me.

    What i need to improve:
    Still dont give a fuck!!<<<

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