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    Wow, man.

    You're really improving. This is the kind of inspirational thread we need around here.

    Definitely keep up the good work, unless you get into a relationship, then congrats!
    "The mind only acts as an enemy for those who do not control it."

    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

    Here's how I see it:

    Men act, women react. Don't take the woman's role.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mcgoo View Post
    Got another Day 2 last night. Had dinner, and it seemed to go great, we defiantly had the playful vibe, I dhved a couple times, I qualified her saying she was fun, and the fact that she wasn't scared to tell it how it is instead of bullshitting to save face. We built rapport and talked about a whole shitload of things.

    Then when I took her home, I went in for the kiss and got a turn away and a hug. So idk whats up, maybe she takes it really slow, maybe the date didn't go as well as I thought it did. Ill prob try for a second date either sunday or next weekend, we'll see.
    Not necessarily. This girl I used to fuck once called me RIGHT after a date (on the way home) telling me how bad she wanted to go down on me, and laughing about how the guy she just got off a date with (who was a nice guy) thought she was a goodie two shoes because she didn't even give him a goodnight kiss. So I don't think it's about her taking things super slow. Sometimes there's no "spark" or sexual tension there to make the K-Close work. You may've had a nice time but still given her the friendship vibe. To the point where she's thinking "I had fun, but I don't feel a spark. He'd probably make for a cool friend though."

    In any case, don't get discouraged. It takes balls to do that many cold approaches (especially in the day, and ESPECIALLY by yourself).

    You mentioned your confidence earlier, and how some days you just aren't feelin' it. (i.e. "Cocky/funny wasn't on, I wasn't witty, convo was boring", etc.) Something you've gotta remember is, "It's still ME!" Here, I'll explain...

    Think of certain "alpha males" on TV. Or cool characters you like from movies. You AUTOMATICALLY assume the girls want him, even in scenes where that isn't touched on.

    Take "Fonzie" from Happy Days. He got all the girls, was the coolest guy on the show, and a leader of men, right? Even if he wore a suit or WASN'T macking on girls, you'd still think "He's still The Fonz up underneath that sports coat. Just cuz he's not wearing his leather jacket doesn't mean nothin!"

    The point I'm trying to make is, have such a confidence in WHO YOU ARE, that even a "boring" version of you, is STILL "YOU!"

    Mcgoo wasn't witty today.
    Mcgoo didn't shave today.
    Mcgoo used very generic openers today.
    Mcgoo got ignored after sending out a lame text today.

    But you know what? He's still MCGOO! And even at 20%, you're still better than 90% of other guys out there, because it's YOU!

    Feel me?

    Realize your worth. Regardless of your fuck ups, have the attitude of "Hey, she still interacted with greatness today. Even if she doesn't know it. Oh well. Her loss" and move on.

    Eliminate the negative feelings associated with the girls you don't close. You WON'T close all of them.

    I remember about 6 or 7 years ago, I was with a friend of mine at a gas station. I saw a car of girls parked as one of them went inside. I said "Let's go talk to those girls." He said "Man those girls look bitchy. They won't talk to us." I said "Fuucck iiitttt. Let's try anyway."

    He reluctantly followed me as I approached the driver. She rolled her window down and...

    Me: "Hey. I was just wondering..."
    Her: "No."
    Me: LMAOOOOOOOOOO

    I turned to my boy who said "told you" and we just laughed as we went back to his car.

    The point? I DIDN'T CARE! We were having FUN! I pulled two numbers from other hotties an hour later, forgetting all ABOUT the car girl.

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    Aaaaaaand I'm back. So here's what happened.

    After that first date we hung out like every day for the next three weeks. For like 6 hours each day. I had a fucking blast. She was so easy to hang out with, we'd just chill and do whatever all day and then hook up at night. Best sex I've ever had, not only was she by far the hottest chick I've slept with but she just had a way of turning me on by the way she carried herself, I can't explain it.

    Then she got a job 7 hours away, but we decided to try the long distance thing. Didn't see her for two weeks, she was working 60 hours, and her phone broke for a while so we barely got to talk. Anyway she came back and said she wasn't into me anymore. I could tell right away, it sucks when you walk up to someone super excited to see them and they just look so neutral and you can tell its over. It sucked, I'm not gonna lie, it really sucked. Still does.

    So do I regret it? Hell no. I had the time of my life when we were together, I wouldn't change any second of it. I feel like that's what life's about, having those experiences where you just feel on top of the world. And yea, they don't last forever, but what, are you never gonna go on vacation because eventually you have to come back? Fuck that.

    It's so nice to know now that I have a way of coming back from breakups now. I remember before this stuff breakups would feel so hopeless, like I would just have to rely on luck to get a new girl. Now its like yea it sucks, but I can just focus my energy on getting a new chick, I feel like I have control over my fate.

    Anyways, thanks for the comments while I was away, got some advice I could have probably used in the relationship lol. But now its back to the game, back to the grind, I love it.

    Here's Day 48...

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    Day 48

    Approaches: 3

    Number Closes: 1


    AA hit my like a ton of muthafuckin bricks today. Took me like an hour and a half to make my first approach. Thats what I get for taking 2 months off lol. First approach was an Asian chick, didn't speak much english. For some reason Asian chicks give me little to no approach anxiety, so it was the easiest first approach. Then got a number on the second set. Was really happy about that, wasn't sure how I'd be on the first day coming back. Felt real confident on it, but the conversation was kinda choppy, still shakin the rust off. Solid first day back tho.

    Stats for Approaches 200 to 300

    Approaches: 85

    Number Closes: 21

    Day 2s: 3

    Kiss Closes: 4

    F Closes: 1

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mcgoo View Post
    Aaaaaaand I'm back. So here's what happened.

    After that first date we hung out like every day for the next three weeks. For like 6 hours each day. I had a fucking blast. She was so easy to hang out with, we'd just chill and do whatever all day and then hook up at night. Best sex I've ever had, not only was she by far the hottest chick I've slept with but she just had a way of turning me on by the way she carried herself, I can't explain it.

    Then she got a job 7 hours away, but we decided to try the long distance thing. Didn't see her for two weeks, she was working 60 hours, and her phone broke for a while so we barely got to talk. Anyway she came back and said she wasn't into me anymore. I could tell right away, it sucks when you walk up to someone super excited to see them and they just look so neutral and you can tell its over. It sucked, I'm not gonna lie, it really sucked. Still does.

    Anyways, thanks for the comments while I was away, got some advice I could have probably used in the relationship lol. But now its back to the game, back to the grind, I love it.
    1. OUCH! That's gotta sting. Did she say what changed, or was that all she said?
    2. Elaborate.

    Btw, are you sure her phone was really broken? Or was that just the beginning of the "not feeling you anymore" stage and the phone was the excuse?

    Either way, good to see you back.

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    I'm so proud of the progress that you have made man! You're doing well and I commend you for that.

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    Hey man (Mcgoo)
    To be honest, sorry that it was not go until forever as u have imagined but I am also happy that u r back. Good luck.
    NEVER GIVE UP, THIS IS YOUR LIFE->THIS IS YOUR GAME. ONE LIFE, LIVE IT.

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    Yea it could have been an excuse with the phone, but regardless, her feelings faded. Said there wasn't a reason specifically, she just didn't feel the same way. LDRs suck anyways tho. As much as people deny it, I think the physical part of a relationship is just as important as the emotional part. Plus I just really like sex

    Here's day 49...

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    Day 49

    Approaches: 7

    Number Closes: 3


    HB6
    On my second approach I start talking to this chick, and she says she's meeting back up with her family, I guess they're visiting from somewhere else. Halfway through the conversation her little sister and parents walk up. Allllkward lol.

    HB6 - Number Close
    Probably my best qualification ever. She asked me why I approached her, and I was like "You have a really confident walk. I used to be really into psychology and you can tell a lot about someone by their body language, and you come off as a very confident person, which is something I look for in a girl." Something like that at least. She got this really flattered smile on her face, it felt good.

    HB8 - Number Close
    I think I could have gotten a insta-date with this chick. I had her smiling and laughing, and like five minutes into the conversation she says she has work in an hour and was gonna get something to eat and surf the web on her laptop. She practically invited me for an insta date, aaaaand I completely chickened out. It was like things were going so well and I was worried I'd run out of things to say. And it sucks cause I'm going home for the 4th and staying through the weekend, so I'm gonna have to try to maintain the attraction for like a week before I'll get a shot at a day 2. But whatever, ya live and ya learn.

    I noticed leaning on something makes you seem way more confident. Idk if it makes me look more confident or if it just makes me feel more relaxed, which causes me to act more confidently. Either way, it gave me two pretty solid number closes.

    Stats for Approaches 200 to 300

    Approaches: 92

    Number Closes: 24

    Day 2s: 3

    Kiss Closes: 4

    F Closes: 1

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