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    15 days, 150 approaches, Goodbye AA, Hello iron guts

    I think that it is a good idea to open my own journal to keep a track of what I am doing , get some insights and motivate some people to move their ass as others's journal did for me.
    English is not my native language so please be tolerant with my writing skills.

    I have approached around 30 chicks in DG so far and still feel AA while sarging alone, because I've mostly approached while I was with wings. It is another story to sarge alone!

    So my aim is to KILL my AA while I am alone by approaching massively.

    Regarding the fact that I don't have internet at my place, I will update my journal every 2-3 days.



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    Kev! whaddup! when are we gonna sarge at Vantaggio again? haha! get them foreign chicks

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    So it has been 8 days since i opened my journal. I realize that it take time to keep a journal up to date and i have been busy these days.

    Day1:

    AA kicks in so bad, i am alone and i don't approach this day. Fucking day i won't spend any day like this one anymore!!

    Day2:

    I am busy, no time to sarge but approach a hb 10 in a social event. Seriously this chick is so hoooot. That's why i am sarging! I want to get chicks like that. So we had a conversation but i was kind of nervous and i was unable to escalate! It give me more motivation to sarge and improve my game.

    Day3:

    10 approach this day in day and nightgame.

    1)
    me: excuse me, i know it is a bit random, but i saw you and i
    think you are gorgeous.

    Hb: smile

    me: so what are you up to?

    Hb: i am waiting for some
    friends.

    Me: what a good day, i want to surf.

    Hb: yeah you should...

    Blank.. Eject

    2)direct,|thank|you,eject

    3)|direct,|smile|thank|you,|eject

    4)|direct,|smile|thank|you|eject

    I|didn't|feel|her|into|me,|i|should|push|the|inter actions|as|far|as|i|can,|make|her|say|no!

    6)me:|touch|her|shoulder
    Hb:|scared
    Me:|laughing|inside;|breathe,|breathe!|Are|you|ok?
    Hb:|what?
    Me:|i|know|it|is|random|but|i|think|you|are|gorgeo us|so|i|just|came|to|meet|you!
    Hb:|smile,|thank|you|
    Auto|eject|

    7)|hey,|i|know|it|is|a|little|bit|random,|but|i|sa w|you|and|i|think|you|are|gorgeous|so|i|came|to|me et|you.|But|are|you|fun??|
    Hb:|yeah|maybe
    Me:Tell|me|a|joke!!|....|Just|kidding|
    Just|want|o|make|sure|you|are|not|crazy.||
    Hb:|i'm|julie
    Handshake
    Me:|i'm|ikar
    Hb:|nice|to|meet|you
    Where|are|you|living?
    Me:|ln downtown?|
    Hb:|it|is|good place|to|stalk|people.|
    Me:|waow|you|are|crazy|i|should|stay|away|from|you !!
    Hahaja
    Hb|what|are|you|doing|for|a|living?
    Me:|i|am|an|english|student|and|u?
    Hb:|blablabla
    Mek...|(didn't|get|what|she|told|me)
    Hb:|i|have|to|go|to|meet|some|friends.
    Me:|Hey|i|have|to|meet|some|friends|too|but|give|m e|your|phone|number!
    Hb:|sorry,|i|have|a|boyfriend
    Me:|so|what|you|are|telling|me|is|that|we|have|to| kill|him?(i saw that line myztar journal and it make thw chick laugh everytime)|
    Hb:|haha
    Me:|no|seriously|how|are|you|going|to|break|up|wit h|him?
    Hb:|i'm|serious,|i|have|been|with|him|since|4|year s
    Me:|ok|it|was|nice|meeting|you
    Hb:|yeah|nice|meeting|you,|see|you!

    8)|3|set|sitting|on|a|table|in|a|restaurant,|i|app roach|through|a|window
    Me:Hey|do|you|have|a|lighter? (i really wanted a lighter!)
    Hb5:|no|but|we|have|some|chips,|do|you|want|some?
    Me:|no|sorry|i|am|on|a|diet!
    Hb5:|really??
    Me:|yeah.....just|kidding
    Hb5:|are|you|on|a|skateboard?|
    Me:|yeah,|you|are|smart!!!
    Are|you|studying|at|sdsu?
    Hb5:Yeah|i|study|art!
    Me:|waow|you|are|an|artist!|Can|you|draw|a|portrai t?|
    Hb5:|yeah!
    Me:|so|can|you|draw|me?
    Hb5:|yes|i|can!
    Me:|so|what|about|drawing|me|this|week,|what's|you r|number?|But|i|advise|you,|i|won't|take|my|clothe s|out!!
    Hb5:|but|we|just|met..
    Me:|....

    Fluff|talk,|they|say|i|am|funny,|i|make|them|laugh |a|lot

    a wing joins me in the set

    Hb5:|is|it|your|friend??
    Me:|euhh..|Yeah

    Fluff|talk
    I|told|them|that|we|should|open|a|comedy|club|toge ther|because|we|are|fun|people,|they|are|into|it.

    At|the|end:
    Me:|so|it|is|your|last|chance|to|get|my|phone|numb er!

    Hb5:|no,|we|will|see|each|other|around|and|if|we|m eet|again,|it|will|be|the|destiny|and|i|will|give| you|my|phone|number!

    Me:|i|don't|believe|in|fate|and|we|won't|meet|agai n

    Eject

    Nightgame

    I|socialized|a|lot,|spoke|with|everybody.

    I|found|a|group|with|3|guys|with|2|guys|that|i|kno w

    Friend1:|hey|how|are|you?
    Me:|good|and|you?
    Friend|1:|good!
    Hb7:|ask|me|if|i|want|some|chips
    Me:|euh|i|am|on|a|diet!....|Just|kidding
    |fluff|talk|with|the|group
    Open|hb8:|where|are|you|from?
    Hb8:|brazil
    Me:|nooooooo|wayyyyyy!!!!!
    Lets|try|again....|So|where|are|you|from?
    Hb8:Brazil!!!!
    Me:|you|don't|look|brazilian|at|all!!!

    Blablabla

    Attraction|because|i|talk|to|her|,|then,|i|lose|my |interest|and|talk|to|her|again.|Teasing,|comfort| building|speaking|about|lots|of|things,|she|likes| me,|laughs|a|lot
    She|told|me|that|she|is|looking|for|a|rich|husband
    I|reply|me|too|and|i|want|to|marry|a|rich|wife|and |then|dicorce|and|take|the|half|of|her|money
    Storytelling|about|the|fact|that|i|want|to|set|up| my|own|business..
    Me:|Wait...|Are|you|rich??|Can|you|cook??|Are|you| a|good|housekeeper??|Can|you|do|good|massage?|
    Hb8:|no|i|can't|do|good|massages,|i|prefer|to|rece ive!
    Me:|ok|i|break|up!|I|need|someone|who|can|do|good| massages!!|

    I|did|a|couple|of|kino|but|i|didn't|escalate|enoug h.|
    I|should|have|isolated|her|from|the|group|even|tho ugh|we|were|a|bit|isolated|because|we|were|speakin g|next|to|her|group.
    Too|much|comfort|with|fluff|talk!!|Not|enough|tens ion!
    Sticky|point:|not|enough|escalation
    Topics|too|casual we should have discussed about sexual topics
    Not|enough|qualification
    Good|storytelling
    I|should|have|told|her|that|we should go to the beach together because she is cool and we are going
    to make good friends|and|taken|her|phone|number|and|set|a date.|

    Isolation:|i|should|have|told
    'hey|have|you|seen|the|roof?|Come|with|me|i|am|goi ng|to|show|you!|Guys|stick|around,|i|will|be|right |back!'

    i can't believe that i didn't ask her phone number because we discussed for 2 hour and she staye with me
    when her friends went away!!

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    Okay you approached but you have or had AA and you're using direct openers?Why?
    Direct openers will only work if your inner game is TIGHT.

    Anyway good luck.

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    So it has been 8 days since i opened my journal. I realize that it take time to keep a journal up to date and i have been busy these days.

    Day1:

    AA kicks in so bad, i am alone and i don't approach this day. Fucking day i won't spend any day like this one anymore!!

    Day2:

    I am busy, no time to sarge but approach a hb 10 in a social event. Seriously this chick is so hoooot. That's why i am sarging! I want to get chicks like that. So we had a conversation but i was kind of nervous and i was unable to escalate! It give me more motivation to sarge and improve my game.

    Day3:

    10 approach this day in day and nightgame.

    1)
    me: excuse me, i know it is a bit random, but i saw you and i
    think you are gorgeous.

    Hb: smile

    me: so what are you up to?

    Hb: i am waiting for some
    friends.

    Me: what a good day, i want to surf.

    Hb: yeah you should...

    Blank.. Eject

    2)direct,thankyou,eject

    3) direct, smile thank you, eject

    4) direct, smile thank you eject

    I didn't feel her into me, i should push the interactions as far as i can, make her say no!

    6)me: touch her shoulder
    Hb: scared
    Me: laughing inside; breathe, breathe! Are you ok?
    Hb: what?
    Me: i know it is random but i think you are gorgeous so i just came to meet you!
    Hb: smile, thank you
    Autoeject

    7) hey, I know it is a little bit random, but i saw you and i think you are gorgeous so i came to meet you. But are you fun??
    Hb:yeah maybe
    Me:Tell me a joke!! .... Just kidding
    Just want to make sure you are not crazy.
    Hb: i'm julie
    Handshake
    Me: i'm ikar
    Hb: nice to meet you
    Where are you living?
    Me: ln downtown
    Hb: it is good place to stalk people.
    Me: waow you are crazy i should stay away from you !!
    Hahaha
    Hb:what are you doing for a living?
    Me: i am an english student and u?
    Hb: blablabla
    Me: ok... (didn't get what she told me)
    Hb: i have to go to meet some friends.
    Me: Hey i have to meet some friends too but give me your phone number!
    Hb:sorry, i have a boyfriend
    Me: so what you are telling me is that we have to kill him?(i saw that line myztar journal and it make thw chick laugh everytime)
    Hb: haha
    Me: no seriously how are you going to break up with him?
    Hb: i'm serious, i have been with him since 4 years
    Me: ok it was nice meeting you
    Hb: yeah nice meeting you, see you!

    8) 3 set sitting on a table in a restaurant, i approach through a window
    Me:Hey do you have a lighter? (i really wanted a lighter!)
    Hb5: no but we have some chips, do you want some?
    Me:no sorry i am on a diet!
    Hb5: really??
    Me:yeah.....just kidding
    Hb5: are you on a skateboard?
    Me: yeah, you are smart!!
    high five
    Are you studying at sdsu?
    Hb5:Yeah i study art!
    Me: waow you are an artist! Can you draw a portrait?
    Hb5:yeah!
    Me: so can you draw me?
    Hb5: yes i can!
    Me: so what about drawing me this week, what's your number? But i advise you, I won't take my clothes out!!
    Hb5:but we just met..
    Me:....

    Fluff talk, they say i am funny, i make them laugh a lot

    a wing joins me in the set

    Hb5: is it your friend??
    Me: euhh.. Yeah

    Flufftalk
    I told them that we should open a comedy club together because we are fun people, they are into it.

    At the end:
    Me: so it is your last chance to get my phone number!

    Hb5:no, we will see each other around and if we meet again, it will be the destiny and i will give you my phone number!

    Me: i don't believe in fate and we won't meet again

    Eject

    Nightgame

    I socialized a lot, spoke with everybody.

    I found a group with 3 guys with 2 guys that i know

    Friend1: hey how are you?
    Me: good and you?
    Friend 1: good!
    Hb7: ask me if i want some chips
    Me: euh i am on a diet!.... Just kidding
    fluff talk with the group
    Open hb8: where are you from?
    Hb8: brazil
    Me: nooooooo wayyyyyy!!!!!
    Lets try again.... So where are you from?
    Hb8:Brazil!!!!
    Me: you don't look brazilian at all!!!

    Blablabla

    Attraction because i talk to her , then, i lose my interest and talk to her again. Teasing , comfort building speaking about lots of things,she likes me, laughs a lot
    She told me that she is looking for a rich husband
    I reply me too and i want to marry a rich wife and then dicorce and take the half of her money
    Storytelling about the fact that i want to set up my own business..
    Me:Wait... Are you rich?? Can you cook?? Are you a good housekeeper?? Can you do good massage?
    Hb8: no i can't do good massages, i prefer to receive!
    Me: ok i break up! I need someone who can do good massages!!

    I did a couple of kino but i didn't escalate enough.
    I should have isolated her from the group even though we were a bit isolated because we were speaking next to her group.
    Too much comfort with fluff talk!! Not enough tension
    Sticky point: not enough escalation
    Topics too casual we should have discussed about sexual topics
    Not enough qualification
    Good storytelling
    I should have told her that we should go to the beach together because she is cool and we are going
    to make good friends and taken her phone number and set a date.

    Isolation: i should have told
    'hey have you seen the roof? Come with me i am going to show you! Guys stick around, i will be right back!'

    i can't believe that i didn't ask her phone number because we discussed for 2 hour and she stay with me
    when her friends went away!!

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    I want to desensitive myself and kill AA by opening directly a lot. How can I make my game tight beside opening directly? How should I open?

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    honestly dude, its not about what you open with but how you open your sets... we've personally talked about this b4

    you could honestly come up to a girl sitting by herself and say "I like salad" and it'll hook. the most important thing to remember is to transition stronger. Next time you go out, ask for directions to the nearest starbucks and cut her off while talking and say "i actually dont need directions, you were just really cute so i wanted to talk to you"

    Good job on your date today btw, your girl was definitely smiling and giggling almost the entire time. or atleast everytime i looked, and sorry for opening a set right beside your date. She was just a total hottie and i couldnt let it pass.

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    Don't worry, it was a funny situation, I tried not to look at you because I knew I would laugh.

    Day 4:
    5 approaches
    1 conversation

    Day 5:
    Date, kissclose

    Day 6:
    5 approaches

    Day 7:
    2 approaches, 1 numclose
    Day 3, kissclose, make out

    Day 8:
    Too tired to sarge, slept the whole day

    Day 9:
    2 approaches
    1 Date

    Day 10:
    2 approaches

    Day 11:
    Fuckclose!!

    Day 12:
    3 approaches

    So I have done 30 direct approaches so far. That's not satisfying, but I didn't have the time to approach everyday so I give myself 5 days to do 120 approaches. It means 24 approaches a day. These following days are going to be INTENSE.

    I am too selective when I approach, I approach only Hot chicks by themselves. So during these 5 days I am going to approach any chick to improve my game.

    My AA is really lower than it used to be but can can still feel it depending on the situation.
    I need to work on my transition, qualification and storytelling.

    For tomorrow, I am going to make the longest conversation possible and I won't eject before she rejects me.

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    By the way, I approached almost all these chicks while sarging with my wing, so:
    - when I approach by myself, it is going to count for 2 approaches
    - 2 set, count for 2 approaches
    - 3 set, count for 3
    - 4 set count for 4
    - numclose count for 2

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    Today, i did 11 approaches. 9 of them went more or less like that:

    me: hey, i thought you were cute, i had to come and say hi!

    Hb: smile, thank you

    me: i am ikar

    hb: i am hb

    hb leaves

    But i had 2 conversations and i didn't have to transition because they asked me a couple of questions.

    Ok, i get why it is so bad, it is because I don't commit myself to the interaction and i just approach for to approach without any energy or willingness to close.

    I put too much pressure on myself and it is worsen my game. So i think that the aim i wanted to accomplish is now counterproductive because it was to kill my AA and i know that i am going to kill him little by little, everyday. it is much more productive to focus on improving my game and have fun instead.

    I will approach with the mindset " let's have fun and improve my game"
    now that i have the daygame book from soul, i can focus on every point i have to improve, before i was just going freestyle!

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