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    DaBomb's College Day Journal

    4-14-2010

    I woke up got ready for college, I attended all my classes, and everything in my second class (Customer Service) this girl i've been wanting to talk to sat in front and the the right of where i was sitting. (A person took her normal spot) As this class finishs we get out early, I go outside since it's a beautiful day and I needed some air so I sat on the wall near the building that i have class. Shortly after I see the girl i wanted to talk to with another girl talking, I didnt want to bother their conversation (I know how it feels). As the girl she was talking go came out of the "Food for Thought" (School Store) she came over to the wall and i was teasing her about how her mystery shopper assignment was probably going to be something girly, and I would have been part of their group, but i just knew they were going to do a girly girl store. She hits me (she older women definately no attraction)(teasingly)I find out they are doing a Tanning store, so I was correct. She greets a man (older with back problems) and so i talk to the girl that is to my right, since i'm in a talkative mood now. She is like 4 or 5 bodies away from me,(empty space nobody between us) and later in the interaction she walks over to me to talk. I find out her name is Cora; Cor-a (Hb-7)

    Me: Have you ever heard of a band by the name of "Hollywood Undead"?
    Her: Yes, but they not my kind of music
    Me: They really good, they a combination of rap and rock, and they are refreshing. Instead of being like Carrie Underwood and only singing country or like Britany Spears what ever the hell she sings, or even Mushroomhead that is all metal or screamo.
    Her: Recommends band name (didnt hear name)
    Me: What you going to college for? (Degree wise)
    Her: Ultrasound
    Me: Why?
    Her: Response (dont remember)
    Her: What you going for?
    Me: Business Management
    Her: You say Business Management (guess i said softly? Not Sure)
    Her: *phone rings*
    Me: Was that a friend?
    Her: No it was an insurance company (for her mother), but this is a friend.
    Her: I have to go it was nice meeting you.
    Me: You too / Likewise, take it easy

    (Note: somewhere in the beginning of the conversation she said "I've seen you around but we've never had a class or anything together" this was after i asked her "aren't you in one of my classes?")

    Review: Cora

    Seems into me from that point in time, how she was like "i got to go, but it was nice meeting you".

    Girl #2:Bre (usually short for Breanna i'm assuming)

    Me: *Coming out of class* Hello,dont i know you from somewhere?
    Her: I was down there sitting on the floor
    Me: How you doing
    Her: good
    Me: what's you doing out here?
    Her: Been waiting for an hour for class
    Me: was nice meeting you, whoever you are (i use this and it works like a charm)
    Her: Bre, and you?
    Me: Ryan

    *I get halfway to library, and decide "WTF i'm not going to get a g/f if i dont learn about them". I walk back and go into my class, to help make it like i'm not just coming back to talk to her*

    Me: *Comes out of class AGAIN*
    Me: I'd like to know more about you.
    Her: There's not much too me
    Her: I'm laid back
    Me: *Sits next to her on bench*
    Her: *Cont'd from before* i'm different
    Me: different how?
    Her: most of my friends are guys, i dont hang with girlfriends they too much drama
    Me: chuckle ya
    Me: what kind of movies you into/like?
    Her: I usually rent movies, but i'm usually outside
    Me: Me too, especially days like this
    Her: mhmm
    Me:What you going for? (College degree)
    Her: I'm here to get a certificate, then i'm going back to Arizona to go for vet school.
    Me: Ah, so you like animals. My dad has a cat and my mom has a dog.
    Her: We have 6 cats, 7 dogs, 2 rabbits (not exact numbers or types she said cats and dogs not sure how many)
    >Her: What was your name again (kind of quitely as she didnt want to appear like she forgot in front of her friend Alex.)
    >Me: Ryan
    Her: Introduces me to her male friend, Alex
    Me 2 Alex: Hello, with handshake
    *Guy comes out teasing kick her*
    Her: What is it with you kicking me?
    *She packs up and leaves, but before she stands from bench she says "see you later"*
    Me: Ok, add me to facebook

    Review: Bre

    - I'd like to make her my g/f among other girls.
    - I feel she might be seeing as a LJBF's, however i dont want this.
    Unfortunately i didnt get her # or last name to facebook her.
    - When I greeted her friend Alex i think she realized i liked her more then as a sex object. That I wanted to know HER.
    - I may have lowered my social status when i went back to the classroom the second time (supposidly) then finally talked to her.
    - Her answers in the beginning seemed like IOD's but then when she told me about how her family lives in Arizona (and the weather which was at beginning-middle of conversation) was totally not asked.
    - She also told me her name was "Bre" which is usually short for Breanna so in terms she's giving herself a nickname no?

    I wish from the reader:

    I would like to know what you think my situation with Bre is, and this cora. I'm really into this Bre girl, but i'm not sure if i'm reading too much into it. Hope Not. Your views and constructive advice is welcome.
    Last edited by DaBomb; 04-15-2010 at 08:58 AM. Reason: > = added content (I forgot about this as I typed this up the other day.)


    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    no offense but my first thought after reading this was that you weren't running any game, at all...it seemed to be the epitome of what a quick, friendly conversation amongst two individuals with no intent of becoming anything more then a quick, friendly conversation

    just my opinion. :/

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    Update:

    The first girl in my Customer Service class (CS) I seen the older girl that I just had a frienldy normal conversation with lean into the girl I sort of like. She looks back my way (Maybe me,maybe someone else) I heard the target say the following:

    Her: He doesn't talk enough (or similiar)

    I'll admit I made mistake of sending her a message saying I overheard her comment about me. I've been trying to be more talkative in a dead silent class.

    4-28-10

    Nothing much to report, I have started my "Talk More" excersice that I overheard the girl say. (That I dont talk enough). Today after class I was seeing how much $ I had in my wallet, to see what I wanted to get from the store. I see the older girl come out and right behind her was the target. As I collapsed my wallet back up, I heard the target introducing a guy to another guys saying "I believe you know, Justin". She is what Mystery defined as in the "Proximity Zone" I'm confused, not sure if I got to much negative social value to recover and make something happen between me and her, or not.

    The other target girl (Bre) I have not seen her around (I'm only there for 3 classes Mon./Wed.) If I remember right Bre told me she had classes later, Night classes would be a safe bet. Meaning she lives in dorms or nearby although her family lives in Arizona. (So I doubt she lives in this small town (with exception of dorms, of course)). I was at work one day (can't remember what day (Tuesday is best guess since I dont work on Mon./Wed. and it isn't even Thursday yet) This girl came walking towards our HQ, me and a military friend was picking out growing plants in the rock bed, he says hi to this cutie. I turn around and say "Hi" as well just being nice, and her voice sounds like this Bre girl. Maybe it was, then again maybe not. If I remember she had a smurk/smile on her face when i turned to say hi. Told my co-worker that sounded like the girl bre (I told him the story as well) and he's like "Sounds like you are obsessed with this Bre girl" and I replied with "Why? Because i think this girl sounds the same?" He didnt say anything.

    Note: I've been just saying hi to random people (mainly girls) and they open pretty easily. Even though most of them are things i wouldn't touch if I was the last man on earth. (Not all are fugly, some are actually cute.) Since I've started this Day Game Journal I've seen the fact that it is easier to talk to girls in the day then I originally thought. I'm digging it too !
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    Important Information.

    This is not part of the FR, I just need to notify everyone that the location I live in is not very big, I would say it's a 3rd size smaller then Detroit,MI (Yes I live in Michigan)
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    Quote Originally Posted by spawnz View Post
    no offense but my first thought after reading this was that you weren't running any game, at all...it seemed to be the epitome of what a quick, friendly conversation amongst two individuals with no intent of becoming anything more then a quick, friendly conversation

    just my opinion. :/
    agreed, maybe next time you go out try using some day game material

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    I don't want to sound like an ass but your field reports hurt my eyes. Before you submit future posts, go back and re-read everything you've typed. Fix the numerous errors you continually have and maybe some people will read these.

    On another note, you're not gaming at all. All you're doing is talking with a few females and not sparking any type of attraction.

    "Seems into me from that point in time, how she was like "i got to go, but it was nice meeting you"."
    That doesn't mean anything, girls are almost always polite and will say something similar even if they have no attraction towards you. I really think you need to do some more research on day game but it's good to see you in the field, and at least attempting to pick up ladies.

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    That was random conversation. Its like me making a thread on what I said to a girl I work with. And you seem sort of socially awkward to be honest and you think too much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JIron View Post
    That was random conversation. Its like me making a thread on what I said to a girl I work with. And you seem sort of socially awkward to be honest and you think too much.
    Since i've moved to this little area, i've been working on meeting new people (perferably girls) and just being friends; your right I really wasnt gaming them. Only girl that I was somewhat attracted to was that breanna (spell?) girl. I dont know if this will sound like an excuse, but being in college im working on getting used to it, before I go full force trying to find a lady.

    Need youer honest opinion:

    I've never been in a relationship EVER when I was a youngster I was a big video game addict, than Im now in college and im working on being dedicated (grades help determine what you can make and where you can get to) so im working on my college as I was always one of them that just did enough to get by. I tried opening up to people (came from a controlling family) and I told a girl i liked her and wrote a 3 pg letter (before i came into this community). She destroyed my trust and I cant trust ppl as easily as I once did.

    Issues:
    - Dont know what to expect while in a relationship. (usually like to know what im getting into before i get into it)
    - Can't open myself up as openly i used to be. (trying to work on this.)

    Any tips?
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    1-19-2011

    2nd class on way to last class.

    Me: see girl coming (somewhat attractive, LJBF not g/f
    Me: You just gotta love this weather.
    Her: *laughs* ya
    Me: What major you going for?
    Her: ECE
    Me: ECE?
    Her: Early Childhood Education
    Me: *Tells story about how the daycare giver called me thinking of another Ryan asking if I wanted a job in the daycare ... blah blah blah"
    Her: Giggles / Intrest in story
    Me: *Introduce myself to her with hand shake, she tells me her name"
    Her: Cara
    Me: Kara (Spelled it out how I thought it was spelled)
    Her: Cara
    Me: So a few days later I meet her and go figure she's a blonde.
    Her: *Laughs*
    Me: You should give me your info so I can add you on facebook (I can't remember how I said it but basically I asked for her facebook somehow)
    Her: Sure you can have my facebook
    Her: *Phone Rings*

    Note: We both use the same elevator and go up to next floor then she goes out front entrance while on her phone with what i'm guess a female friend or something. I continue to class.

    Two Questions:

    1) What would you have done with the bit where her phone rings and I was trying to get her FB info?
    2) One of my previous repliers said "you dont do game you have normal conversations" or something like that along the lines. You think I have improved from that response?

    Side Note: This morning when I woke up I was a super jokster and the night before I was my concentrated on school self. So there will be more FR coming.
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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    Ok, I'm going to be restartng this thread.

    I had one apprach but it was very short I didint do nothing as far as comfort or anything and my father was there and I was kind of embarassed that he was there because he is one of them people with a negative outlook. So me and this girl basically said hi and and bye then I was having remorse for not taking it farther. One comment my dad made was "you really think a stranger would give you her facebook?". Just to give you an idea of how negative he is.
    "(This is my understanding of each)
    Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
    Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
    Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
    Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
    "Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
    DaBomb

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