Sexual Hoops: I wrote this article about a year ago I believe and I never posted it because it was going to be taught exclusively at an advanced bootcamp we had planned with Braddock (along with more gold), but this right here is one of my hall of famer theories that you can take straight to the bedroom. Enjoy.
(Mods: please put this in my classic writing section as this is the very foundation for one night stand game right here)
I noticed on how I was getting girls to go sexual so fast and I realized the structure of what I was doing. This is what I call sexual hoops and this is really important when it comes to trying to do one night stands.
So the structure is the following, there are three levels of hoops:
1. Exagerated/Unrealistic sexual hoops
2. Semi Realistic sexual hoops
3. Fantasy sexual hoops
Open the girl based on the ‘why are you doing that?’ shock and awe frame (i.e. it’s your fault).
Then transition into ‘Hi, I’m Jim. And you are?’
Isnt this an awesome place? OR So whats your story?
Who are your friends? You have some right?
Transition quickly into push pull and qualification simultaneously.
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1. The first one is based on completely unrealistic facts. Everything you're talking about is non reality based and she has to doubt that you would even do the things you're sayinng. It's like a cartoonish illustration of you having sex with her, it's supposed to be funny, a little bit out there, but not enough so she could say anything about it, it's a joke, that happens to convey the intention of the interaction.
Ex:
PUA: I haven't told you this but I'm a master at the hidden arts of kama sutra
HER: hahaha what?
PUA: Yeah, did you see the girls that were following me earlier? They're the girls that I've slept with, they follow me everywhere, they just can't get enough. It's kinda annoying but I don't blame them, once you go [yourname] you never go back.
PUA: See those girls? They’re my wives. That one there in particular is crazy in bed. She doesn’t look all that but under the sheets she’s freaky.
PUA: You know, you should know that I’m not like other guys
HER: What do you mean?
PUA: Well, my intentions are completely dishonorable.
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2. The second one are semi reality based. The topic has been brought up playfully and now she kinda does know what your intentions are. This step you are making it more solid. You are basically setting up a plan for the interaction in the night. You are still inserting the idea but it's becoming really obvious that you want to have sex with her that night. You immediately follow all of these comments by a disqualifer of how she should not hang out with you or how she should run away.
In this stage you also give her the warnings that she should run away and state your intentions. "Just so you know I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you shouldn't talk to me". The push is really important because if you don't use it then her natural reaction is going to be to push you away.
Ex:
Bad (without push)
PUA: Just so you know I'm gonna try to hook up with you
HER: Well you can try, I don't know how far you'll get
PUA Tim: I choose you. Its you and me tonight. You know that right?
Good (with push pull)
PUA: Just so you know, I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you should run away, you're too nice, I would just do bad things to you
HER: I'm not too nice!
PUA: You know, I think we’re either gonna fight or fuck. [Not field tested]
PUA: You know, you’re kinda cool. Like how you [insert] and even if I wasn’t trying to get into your pants, I still think it’d be cool to hang out with you.
PUA: You know, I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you should go that way
PUA: You know, you should really get away from me. I’m bad news.
HER: Why?
PUA: Because if you stay any longer, I’m going to try hook up with you.
PUA: You’re hot… do you have a sister that I can hit on?
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3. The third hoops are the fantasy hoops, where you basically hit her deepest fantasies of being dominated fucked without mercy. At this point you should have seeded the past two hoops and the conversation is already sexual and the vibe is "on". You make comments like "I would fuck you so hard", "I would take you home and fuck you so hard you could barely walk for the next couple of days".
At this point your disqualifiers are still going to be there, but they're going to be softer disqualifiers, followed by the occasional hard disqualifier that throws her off.
PUA: I’m going to ruin you for all men.
HER: Why?
PUA: Because I can’t stop thinking about doing bad things to you.
PUA: OMG, I would so take you home and fuck you so hard, you wouldn't be able to walk straight for the next couple days...
HER: (Visualizing what you just said)
PUA: OMG what are you doing to me, I'm a nice person, I can't do this, I want to be a virgin until I get married
PUA: You know what I would do to you, I would put your legs over here (signaling on her shoulders), I would get on top of you and completely dominate you while I was fucking you really hard.
HER: (Absorbing your comment)
PUA: OMG, no no wait, I'm not that easy. I gotta go, I don't know what you're doing to me but I better go get a drink or something.
PUA: (Starts to walk away... interrupts himself and comes back)
PUA: Ok, come with me, let's get a drink, but let's be good, I don't know why but I'm just drawn to you for some reason... stop trying to seduce me, I wanna be a priest one day, I can't have sex.
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If you do these correctly, you will have a girl that is very turned on, she's very attracted to you and has no doubt in her mind that you are trying to fuck her. You took her through the first hoop, which is playful sexual introduction, she accepted it. You took her through the second hoop, which is grounding your sexual intentions to reality, and she accepted it. Then you took her through the last hoop, and you played on her fantasies and got her really turned on, and pushed and pulled, and she has accepted that frame, what's next?
Basically you need to take her home. But there's a small thing you need to do mid set that either makes you or breaks you, and it's called seeding the pull. You are planting the idea that after you are in the club/bar/whatever you two should go somewhere to continue the interaction. At all costs you want to avoid being the guy that,when the places closes and everyone is outsitde says something like "so... you wanna go somewhere else?". That is the wrong approach to it because she has to make the decision right there and then, the state has just been broken, she might have to deal with her friends trying to take her home, and many other variables that you can't control.
What you want to do is, in a high note, mid-set, you suggest that you do something afterwards. Think of something that's cool about your place, like if you have some cool pictures of your most recent trip, or if you have a set of turntables, or whatever, you suggest that you go to your place because she has to check that out. It can also be going to a restaurant near your place because you are hungry. What you are doing is just given her a valid excuse to take her home without triggering the "we are going to fuck" switch, because then she has too much pressure on the fact that she HAS to do something. If you use a seeding excuse, then she can validly back down from sex because that wasn't part of the agreement, so it takes the pressure off the situation.



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