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    Obsessed with Pick Up

    Any of you guys obsessed with pick-up? The Game? The HUNT? I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing...



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    It's a lifestyle, I'm not sure how someone could be obsessed.

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    I wouldnt say im obsessed but I find myself now having lots of trouble to commit to one girl. Its like when im in a relationship I dont know what to do with myself anymore and life isnt just as exciting as it is when im single and in the game. Also your value for women goes down because once you partly figure out how they work (we will never fully understand them) you always just say.... whatever Ill get another one.

    Its not terrible problem I would say because im pretty happy I can do things other guys cant but its a side effect you should watch out for.
    "No matter how hot or how desirable a woman is to you, she is still *just a girl*. If you treat all women equally, you aren't likely to get flustered or nervous around girls you really like, they're just girls" - My number 1 rule.

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    Yeah I'm in the same boat as you KD that's exactly what I meant. I feel good but at the same time I'm slowly losing respect for them which isn't good. But at the same time we're young so we should just enjoy what we got going for us now fuck it

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    I'm pretty obsessed with it now. For me it's a rollercoaster ride of feeling like shit one minute after getting blown out of a set. Then on cloud 9 the next minute after totally getting some play with an hb 8-9. Guess I have kind of have bipolar game.

    Pickup has probably taken over as my number one hobby in the past year. Two years ago I was a pretty bad-ass C# programmer and went snowboarding every day in the winter. PUA takes up most pf my time now. It makes it difficult when women ask what I do all day and I need to make stuff up rather than say something like, "oh... i hung out at the mall working on my day game. Scored a number from a HB 7.5, tho.".
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    Are you obsessed with driving fancy cars or with bottle service in a high-end nightclub?
    As for me I see it as a way of upgrading life!
    Have a beautiful women around you, enjoy their bodies and their presence, their charm and their smile,
    be that guy who enters a lounge with a 10 that turn heads of all others even other women (!).
    That can be addicting!
    The process itself is interesting, but reward is what makes it count!
    Even if we release all expectations we enjoy every single victory, no matter how small or big!
    Dont you think?

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    The fact that your losing respect for women isn't really a bad thing. Women lost respect for men years ago. It's part of the reason why the game exists in the first place. Most women don't think twice about shutting a man down, even if it could be crushing to him.

    My theory is once you find a woman you respect....well, then maybe it will go to a place that's beyond the game.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rico View Post
    The fact that your losing respect for women isn't really a bad thing. Women lost respect for men years ago. It's part of the reason why the game exists in the first place. Most women don't think twice about shutting a man down, even if it could be crushing to him.

    My theory is once you find a woman you respect....well, then maybe it will go to a place that's beyond the game.
    Check out my thread on misogyny.
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    I think you are only truly obsessed with pick up if you get too far into your own head with theory & rules. Rules are meant to be broken, that should be rule #1 for every guy out there. There is no proper way to talk to a woman & no proper way to close her. If you're having a good time, feeling confident & comfortable & aren't compromising your own belief system then chances are she will feel good around you, & - "fun is the ultimate aphrodisiac" - I believe it was Sinn that said that. About a year ago, I think I was getting a little too analytical with game, to the point where I lost some of my natural charm & charisma because I thought I had to be a complete asshole. You don't have to be a complete asshole to get chicks, just be the true - natural - asshole that you are deep down inside.

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    ^Alot of people lie to themselves subconsciously. Pick up is addicting. I feel as though most of the community is addicted from the newbies to the instructors. But then again it's in our biology. Who knows
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