SOS! Something must be wrong with me. Please help!

SOS! Something must be wrong with me. Please help!

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    SOS! Something must be wrong with me. Please help!

    Hi everyone,

    I have a problem and I don't know who to turn to to talk about this. I am 31 years old and live in Los Angeles. As I was walking home from the coffee shop today, wondering why it was so difficult for me to meet and have successful relationships the type of women I am interested, I had another realization. That I have very few to no friends. Not only do I have no friends because I am reletively new to Los Angeles, but I have never had many friends. I don't know what it is or why. I try to make friends, I go out to meetup groups, and social events, I talk to people, and sometimes, with the friends I do have, I almost always have to initiate contact. Its not like I see with other people who have friends that are a support network, that call them and are like "hey man lets go out tonight" or what not. This girl I know from work, when she talks to other guys she knows who arn't even really as close, she talks about how she can put in a good word for them with a particular girl. But never me. I just dont get whats wrong with me. I think I am friendly and personable. I am tall and decent looking (people have said I am good looking) I dress well, and have a good job. What am I doing wrong that is making it so difficult for me to build relationships with people? Do I have some hidden physical or personality flaw that I am unaware of because people are too nice to tell me about it and don't want to hurt my feelings? Its gotten to the point where I have almost given up with the types of women I am interested in and have come to the point that I am making excuses that its because I am not a rich producer or blond surfer boy. However deep down I know this is nonsense because I see people who are not rich and not surfer boys all the time with the types of girls I wish I could get. I have no problems talking to girls, opening sets of girls, or even stopping them on the sidewalk and having a conversation with them. Part of me has started to give up. I have no problems asking for numbers and facing rejection and going on dates. But there must be something fundamentally wrong with me that I am just not seeing. It must be related to the same reason that is causing me to not really have any friends. I have moved from city to city over the years, always with the same result and it always ends with me thinking that it must be the city. The people here are just weird, or superficial, etc, if only I lived in that city, or if only i lived in another country it would all be different, the girls and the people would be friendlier, But now I am starting to think that maybe its not the city I live in, or the people, but me. What can I do? Any advice or insight would be MUCH appreciated. Maybe I should see a psychotherapist that can uncover some deeply hidden personality flaw I might have that is subconsciously turning people off about me? This is making me feel very lonely and depressed.



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    Your in LA bro that's what's wrong. LA girls are stuck up cunts and guys walk around with a stick up they ass.

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    Re: SOS! Something must be wrong with me. Please help!

    if it's that bad then move to Asia. Asian girls are the best and they will love you.

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