Rule #1. Digesting seduction material HURTS your game while it internalizes.
How do I learn Seduction?
Rule #2. Seduction material is NOT a substitute for field experience.
Rule #3. Have fun and happy hunting.
1. Buy the Magic Bullets ebook.
I've purchased and read over two dozen seduction ebooks. The Magic Bullets ebook is the MOST comprehensive manual available. It covers everything you need to GET STARTED. No book can prepare you for everything.
Q: Do you profit from sales of the ebook?
A: Not directly. I benefit from the increased popularity of Love Systems, but not fiscally.
Q: I'm having trouble with X, is there another product I can buy to resolve it?
A: Yes, but you're not ready for more material. Not even material on opening. See the newbie mission below.
2. Begin the newbie mission. Weeks Five through Ten.
Your goal during the newbie mission is to open three sets an hour, four hours a night, four nights a week for six weeks. You will do this using 3-4 stock routines, a couple of stock negs and a stock qualifier. The primary goal is to open 200-300 sets during this time. Eject at the twenty minute mark to ensure you don't stick with one set for the entire evening.
Q: Where can I find stock material for the newbie mission?
A: The Attract section of the forum and Bristol Lair.
Q: These routines don't feel like they're me. Are there any others?
A: Of course they're not you. These were written and field tested by guys who are GETTIN LAID. Are you getting laid to your contentment? No? Then stop being you and pretend to be someone who's reached your goals.
Q: Can't I build DHV stories like they talk about in the MM ebook?
A: Not during the newbie mission. The words you speak are minor in comparison to the inner game you portray via your nonverbals. Continue to use the stock material until you are CONSISTENTLY moving into C1 on your sets. That's the point at which your nonverbals are aligned with a successful PUA. Now you can build and field test personal DHV stories.
Q: I have this great opener, will it work?
A: If you ask this, I can only assume you haven't completed the newbie mission. Put your work of creativity down and complete the n00b using STOCK material. You're not successful with women to your satisfaction. You isn't getting laid. Stop being you. We're going to change you into someone who's getting laid by pretending to be someone else for awhile. Put your ego aside, suck it up and take it like a man.
Q: I went out last night and couldn't open a single set. Is this approach anxiety?
A: It's a combination of things we toss under the Approach Anxiety umbrella. Your body is protecting you from abnormal behaviour. Back in our tribal days, talking to strangers could get you killed. Which is a bad thing. Read this article if you'd like to understand what Approach Anxiety is and learn ways to diminish it. The short answer is suck it up, take it like a man and open sets. Noone can force you to do this but you.
Q: All the girls in the club were with guys. Where are all of the single girls?
A: First, most of those guys are not fucking those girls. Second, her boyfriend is HER concern, not YOURS. Love System teaches method that can be indirect. You're not hitting on the girls, you're being social. Walk up to mixed sets and start having a conversation by using stock routines.
Your goal during the newbie mission isn't to get laid or even to make progress with ANY ONE girl. Your goal is to improve YOUR SKILL.
Q: The club I went to last night was very loud. How do I talk over the music?
A: If at all possible, focus on bars during the newbie mission. Clubs have a very regular crowd and require you to be MUCH higher energy than a bar. Clubs also require a LOT more Kino than bars.
Q: I'm in school or the military. Can I run the newbie mission on campus or base?
A: Hell no. Do NOT run the newbie mission in a closed environment where you will be seeing the same people over and over. You're going to fuck up during this mission. A LOT. Doing this at work, school, base, etc could get you fired or suspended. It could also build a reputation. Find someplace else to practice.
After the newbie mission, feel free to game wherever. Just use common sense.
3. Monthly audio subscription. Weeks Eleven through Sixteen.
You've completed the newbie mission. You're consistently opening sets and consistently reaching social hook on most sets. Time to sprinkle in some seduction material.
Q: What seduction material do you recommend after the newbie mission?
A: Only spend ONE hour with seduction material for every FOUR in field. No exceptions. You should consider two pieces of material at this point in your development as a PUA.
Disclaimer. I am not fiscally affiliated with any of the companies I list below and do not receive any direct personal benefit from my recommendations.
First is a monthly audio subscription. Love Systems, David DeAngelo and Carlos Xuma are all good. David D interview a new seduction guru each month. Carlos Xuma focuses on inner game and personal coaching. The point of a monthly subscription is to continutally expose yourself to new concepts and trains of thought.
Second is the Cliffs List 2005 DVD set. This is a collection of ten seduction masters from the 2005 Cliffs List expo. This introduces you to new concepts and schools of thought within the seduction community same as a monthly audio subscription. Only with visual feedback. Of note are a slew of great speakers.
Following the ONE hour with material for every FOUR in field, these two purchases will be your ONLY seduction material for the next six weeks.
Q: I'm having trouble with X, should I buy Y seduction material?
A: No. You'll purchase sticking point specific seduction material later. For now, focus on learning from successful PUAs and building DHV stories (see below).
Q: I can't afford the Cliffs List DVDs. Is there something else I can buy?
A: Go to the Fast Seduction Archives and download material from some of the big names like Savoy, Style, and Tyler Durden. Read what you can.
4. Personal DHV stories. Weeks Eleven through Sixteen.
You'll begin building DHV stories based on your personal life experiences as explained in the Magic Bullets ebook. This includes openers, A2 stories, grounding routines and vulnerability stories. You will INTENSIVELY field test these over the next six weeks. This is the same six weeks in which you are digesting the Cliffs List DVDs, btw.
Q: How do I field test these stories?
A: One at a time, replace a canned routine with a DHV story. Go out that week and run the story on twenty sets MININUM. You'll work out the kinks and determine if its a suitable story for future sets. Do this for each story until your satisfied with the quality.
5. Sticking Points. Weeks Seventeen ongoing.
It's been Sixteen weeks since you first purchased the MM ebook. That's Four months. Congratulations. You should be seeing some success and begin feeling more adept with women. But you have your sticking points.
Q: Which product should I buy for X problem?
A: Go back to the cliffs list DVDs and your monthly audio subscription. Did any of these authors have a style that jives with your natural state? Go research wether or not they have a seduction poroduct and purchase it.
Second, consider phone consulting from a seduction company like Love Systems. The cost is very affordable. This is the BEST POSSIBLE purchase baded on my own experience.
Q: What's your opinion of X product?
A: I get two or three of these e-mails a week. Aside from this post, I am no longer recomending product to budding PUAs. Most of the people who e-mail me need more field time. Not more product.
-- Cedar (Edited)