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    Other attraction switches

    In all the lovesystems material I've read/heard the attraction switches listed are always the following 8:

    health, wealth, humor, social intuition, pre-selection, status, confidence, challenge

    But I always hear about 'Leader of men' and 'protector of loved ones. Why aren't these included? I know for a fact they are not in the RM2. Not sure about MB 1.5
    Or do they fit into the above 8 somewhere?

    Also what about a man's ability to cook or build/fix things or simply good looks? Or are these ones just socially conditioned attraction switches/individual girl preferences rather than biological?



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    Great set of questions.


    The 8 attraction switches are -- if you see a beautiful woman and don't know anything about her -- your best bet for creating attraction.

    Of course there are other things that are attractive. Some just aren't as important as these 8. Like putting the toilet seat down. Other things are very attractive, but not equally so to most beautiful women. The classic example there is intelligence - some women love intelligent men; for others, it does nothing or is even a turnoff.

    Looks are covered within health. Magic Bullets 2.0 renames that one "Health and Appearance".

    Leader of men is part of status.

    Protector of loved ones is important to some women, not to others. It's like intelligence in that way.

    You should only really be worried about the attraction switches for the first 20 minutes or so. By then, you should know enough about her that you can be a bit more targeted.
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    I have to disagree savoy, pre selection Leader of men and protector of loved ones are three of the big four, along with confidence. Survival is the most primal human instinct, this specifically adresses it, and is what females are all about, based on evolutionary psychology. it directly relates to her survival, and having healthy children and there survival, at a basic level. Is it essential to have, no, but it is with any other attraction switch, every women wants it in different amounts, It is important to every women whether they conciously realize it or not.

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    Hi Bob. There's no monopoly on truth and reasonable minds can disagree, but I feel pretty comfortable with the ones we've been teaching and how we teach them. Being a "leader" is part of status, but you can have status and be very attractive to women without being a leader of men. But if thinking in terms of "leader of men" helps you lead the lifestyle you want, go for it!
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    no I definatley agree with that man, the attraction switches are pretty magnificant, jsut don't want guys to get the wrong idea on one of them or miss out on using them, just thought a bit more clarification may help guys out

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    9th attraction swich?

    Quote Originally Posted by milts View Post
    In all the lovesystems material I've read/heard the attraction switches listed are always the following 8:

    health, wealth, humor, social intuition, pre-selection, status, confidence, challenge
    I've been a fan of Attraction for a while now mostly because it's a huge sticking point of mine.

    But I am also curious about this as well, Shouldn't there be a 9th attraction switch in...

    Fasion? (is status part of fasion?) Women love fasion - Right? so why isn't that in their unless it's in one of the 8attraction switches???

    Might try and do some more reading up on that or wait till my bootcamp.

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    Alright, let's try this one last (?) time. This is important.

    There are 3 billion women in the world. They are all different and will all want different things. My friend Paula in college loved witty older intellectual cynical Woody Allen types. My ex-girlfriend's sister Amy was all about rugged individualistic self-sufficient outdoorsy guys. Etc. There is no way you're going to know any of this before you talk to her.

    So when you first meet a woman, say a couple minutes in, what qualities do you want her to know about you? If you talk about your love for camping, you've bored Paula. If you talk about books you've read, Amy will start scanning the room for other guys.

    Now, some of that is inevitable, and good. You're not trying to be all things to all women. You're not even trying to be something you're not. You don't need to be. What you are trying to do is to present yourself from the best angle. To show the aspects of your personality that are most attractive and relevant to her. Because she doesn't have time to get to know you and all the other 5000 guys who have approached her in the past year. If you're good, you get a few minutes to give her something to latch onto and feel attracted to you. What we're trying to avoid is situations where you HAVE qualities that interest her but she never finds out about them because you're too busy talking about useless shit.

    So, enter the attraction switches from the Magic Bullets Handbook.

    Attraction switches are eight things that most beautiful women around the world tend to like. They're not the 8 most important characteristics a man can have to attract women. But they ARE your best bet for things to convey early on after meeting a beautiful woman. As different as they both are, both Amy and Paula notice a guy with social intelligence, humor, confidence, who is pre-selected, and so on. So if you met either of them in a bar, you wouldn't start with a shot in the dark about your camping trip or your book club. You'd start with stuff that attractive women usually tend to like which makes her interested in getting to know you. Then you can see what other interests you might have in common (qualification and comfort).

    I hope this helps -- it's an important concept so I don't mind answering questions about it.
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    Dog and Cat attraction switches

    What attractions switches do dogs and cats flip in women? Clearly there is something to be learned from this. Has anyone looked into it?

    (1) Around 63% of all U.S. households (71.1 million) have pets.
    (2) Can men learn to flip the same attractions switches that pets do?
    (3) People put up with incredible inconvenience to own one.
    (4) Pets are beta toward their owners, and they are not terribly smart.
    (5) Many breeds have only one survival skill, namely being cute.
    (6) Pets are held up to a different standard than human companions,
    can men do things to make girls lower their standard expectations?

    And then there is the whole idea of "collectors" and obsessive compulsive
    hoarding. Some women collect things like candles, or have weird hobbies.
    Is there a way that a man can trigger the switches that make a woman
    gravitate toward him, much like she would to a porcelain doll collection
    or toward a strange hobby? How does one trigger such compulsions?

    It seems to me that the above might a key to discovering additional
    attraction switches.

    ...me

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    What attractions switches do dogs and cats flip in women?
    You're not going to drop her panties talking about how Mr. Whiskers has the quirkiest habits.
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