People have been on my ass lately for a new post. Well here it is.
WARNING: This goes beyond simple pickup. If you are here to get routines and gimmicks, then you will not like the following post. However, if you are here to better your life, and discover all the ways in which you can be the best man you can be, then you may proceed.
So lately I was browsing around my old threads, and I came across what I consider to be my favorite: http://www.theattractionforums.com/d...96418-man.html . After reading through this, I realized that at the time, I was missing a very important aspect of masculinity. Perhaps the most important part of all!
You are probably thinking to yourself, “Well Pitts, how could you be so careless?” My apologies, my friends, but it is only something I came to understand very recently. Something that I think most PUAs neglect and most men have no idea about. I am talking about having your own code of conduct, and your own morals with which to live your life by.
A lot of my friends that I talk to regularly and I have acknowledged that American society does not produce very high quality women, for the most part. Of course, there are gems to be found, but they are, for the most part, rare and hard to find. I believe now that finding a woman in America who represents traditional gender roles, positive femininity, a good character, as well as being moderately attractive, is about as hard as winning the lottery. However this post is not about these women.
What I am concerned about is the number of PUAs who acknowledge this phenomenon and engage in it. I’m talking about it taking women’s actions and engaging in the same behavior. I know for me, cheating with taken girl, going after your best friend’s girl (even if she comes on to you), or even breaking our own values and creeds in order to get some ass, are considered in poor taste. This is just me, however; you may decide what you find appropriate. Yet you will find men willing to betray their friends, family, values, and themselves, all in order to get a little pussy. Also think of the outcome: If one man cheats, and manipulates a woman to her breaking point, does she not also think to do this with the next guy? We know how easily swayed women are. There is a damn good chance she may. And hence, we have a vicious cycle being born and no wonder low quality women do this to us! They see us doing it all the time. They take their bearings from us. It is time to give them better examples. Women have become so disenfranchised with a lot of men; you can see it all over our society. It is time to take back our roles, ethics, and morality so we can shape our culture the way it is supposed to be.
The thing that my original post was missing is that you need to have your own code of conduct, and your own morals if you wish to live a fulfilling life. Now stop for a second. I know what you are thinking. You are probably thinking I’m trying to push religious morals on you. I am not. For many centuries, Western men have linked morals to the church, because that was who preached them to you. I AM NOT TRYING TO PUSH RELIGIOUS MORALS. There was a time, back to the Ancient Greeks and Romans where ethics and morals were discussing, separate from the church. I’m saying we return to that time, and take a few lessons from our ancient ancestors.
The way our society is set up today makes up believe that morals and ethics are what hold us back from living a fulfilling life. They call these “conservative values” and we all know how the current trend in America is to bash the conservatives (Republicans, anyone?). Don’t let yourself be fooled. I’m not saying you have to go convert your political beliefs. I’m saying to develop your own sense of what is right and wrong, and for everyone’s sake, STICK WITH IT.
If that means not hooking up with buddy’s girl because she totally put her hand on your junk, so be it. If that mean’s not cheating on your woman because, well hell, she is likely to cheat on you, so be it. You decide. It is not for me to tell you what is right or wrong. I am only telling you that you better decide what is, and make sure you don’t go against it.
The shame about this is that you have many men who say they have morals, yet when opportunity presents itself, they will gladly ‘betray’ their morals in order to somehow get ahead (or some head). However whenever someone actually sticks to their morals, even in the face of adversity, shows a real strength and character that many will admire.
This trend in America of bashing morals and ethics will not end until we decide to no longer participate in it. We are MEN. We have our ethics and our morals to guide us in life, not to hold us back from it. Leading a life of cheating, manipulation, and falsity because others do it will NOT make you happy. You have to decide. Will you stand up, and be a man, stick up for what you believe in, and refuse to lower yourself to the pettiness of our society, or will you wallow around in the mud with the rest of the animals, afraid to take up your higher calling?
I give you this choice now: Will you take your knowledge of manhood, and try and better ourselves, so that our posterity has a better world to live in, OR, will you take your knowledge of manhood, and engage in loose morals activity for your own personal gain? In the end, we are leaders. Because we have failed to be proper leaders, our people (women and such) have taken from our cue, and set about doing our improper actions. It is time to stand up, and retake our roles. Get your morals and ethics into gear, because first in foremost, we are MEN, and MEN will lead by example. Stop the petty behavior, and embrace positive masculinity.