moving to phx area

40 yr old man moving to phx soon. i have read most of the posts to hook up with other liked minded individuals. but most of you are in your early 20's. no disrespect.
i keep in shape. but i do not see myself as club material. never been to one so i dont know and have no idea what its like down there. just wanna get better as human being and with women even if its hangin with 20yrs olds or other men closer/older to my age thankyou