WTF? Age is an advantage?

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    WTF? Age is an advantage?

    OK, this older being an advantage thing is still kinda wierd to me. I am relatively new to the pickup material that's out there and also relatively new to non-exclusivity with a woman I've been dating for most of a year.

    I am f*cking amazed that being up front (and extremely confident) with my age (48) after sparking initial interest is gold. I have limited experience but this can't be a coincidence. I know... calm down, huh? Here's the deal... I just started gaming this 22 yo HB8 online. Yep... online. I thought that I'd have to create attraction before she knew how old I am and the online experience precludes that unless you lie.

    So, here's how I did it. I created a profile, mentioned that I looked mid-30s (true) and then browsed a few young profiles. I got a wink from the 22 yo, came out with a cocky-funny email and started qualifying her hard, making her jump through hoop after hoop to prove that she was good enough for me and rewarding her when she goes out of her way. I set a meeting up with her when she got to the point where she was dying to meet me (next week... I am booked until then). The other thing that I've done is notice that all this human interaction stuff is good as gold to talk about with younger women. Also, I did take a little longer with the email interaction than I normally would have... to give her time to get used to the idea.

    Gawd, I feel great!



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    I am only 24 ....and I am sure DeadEyeDick(another mod) will second this:

    But a healthy, moreless established, man in his thirties and forties DOES have advantage.

    But if you're 35+ and you deliver pizza, look like Jubba-the-hutt , doubtfully your age will give you any advantage.

    I know "the hottest 43" year old guy. Why i know he's the hottest? Every single girl, without exception asks him to pull out his ID to prove his age. He doesn't look older than 30.

    Take care of yourself, and old age will give you advantage.

    ( I know I know i am only in my 20s but i cannot wait to be 30)
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    Nice!
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    Age is a huge advantage for men. Younger women love us because we make more money, we fuck better, we know more about how the world works and we're generally cooler all around than younger guys. Older women love us because we're old enough that they don't look silly being in public with us, and we're still young enough to get it up and fuck them all night long.

    Right now, my working range starts about 25.

    I wouldn't go back to being in my 20's for anything.


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    Wait a minute to be in your 40's and looking like your in your 30's is cool but I am 49 fit as hell and I wear my gray white hair and white goatee proudly and I am told I look early 40's and I am bangin' tail thats 23 and 30 years old..

    Alot can be said about us more mature folk but we are better equiped for the challenges when they arise

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    I thought guys usually go into prison, er I mean marital, status at mid to late 30's?

    I mean like, isnt night clubbing and all that is supposed to die at around that age (for women not men, god knows we dont care about social pressure)?

    Thsi makes it a lot easier on my soul then .

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    I have never married not to say someday I might but most every friend I have are married but I do seem to get a bit of discrimination for being single at my age...I know the topic of are you closet gay maybe LoneStud yeah like I am gay bangin' a 23 and 30 year old. Usually it's the guys that feel insincure by your presences that bring this shit up like your going to take away their woman or something...Come to think about it I just might now when their not looking asking silly questions like that insulting me while his wife is winking at me

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    Yes, your age, played right of course (with confidence), is a DHV. As Silver says, we fuck better, make more money, and are generally cooler. Remember that a PUA is different from all the AFC the women knows. Young women has any number of men (or boys) her own age; how many cool older guys does she know?

    The other thing about being older, which I have found on occasions, is that some (not all, but more than you might think) women in their 20's and early 30's actually want to fuck a man as old as their father to see what it is like. They are curious, and as long as you don't make them feel like they are being a slut, they will fuck you just to tick it off their to-do list before they settle down (or even after they've settled down, if it's still to be done!). I'm not saying women generally go around looking for an older guy to fuck, but if you push the right buttons many will for the heck of it. Allied to that, being older and not wanting to form a LTR also works in your favour; when she goes out with someone her age, she knows she is also likely to have to deal with a possible relationship. So don't be the older guy trying to find a young wife, be the available older guy she can fuck without stings.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ice Pill View Post
    I thought guys usually go into prison, er I mean marital, status at mid to late 30's?
    Some of us break out.

    I mean like, isnt night clubbing and all that is supposed to die at around that age (for women not men, god knows we dont care about social pressure)?
    Nightclubs are horrible places to look for quality women.


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    Well, this thread has made me feel a whole lot better about my future .

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