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    How to # close QUICKLY???

    Hey Guys,

    New to MM, but loving it already. I plan on posting questions about my sticking points until I get better, and then hopefully some awesome Field-Reports where we can all share in the joy that is pickup.

    Here's my first question:

    over this weekend I was out sarging and doing pretty well. Started talking to an HB8.5 and got her smiling, even did a room destroyer by pointing out other guys and the loser-celebrities they look like (Justin Guarini, Kid N' Play...)

    Anyway, she was laughing a lot and we had an obvious thing going but then her friends showed up and she left with them. I had no idea how to number close. She smiled at me and said she had to go, but hesitated a moment. She said something else (don't remember?) But it led me to neg her with "your a bad girl" then I spanked her ass.
    She laughed.
    I told her she could return the favor and she did.

    She then said "See you later" and left.

    My question is -- How do you number close a girl you've been talking to for 5 or 6 minutes?? And especially one who is on her way out.
    Should I have just gone straight ahead with "Gimme your number..."

    At the time I felt like nothing would work, so I didn't bother. Now of course I'm kicking myself cuz I'll never see that girl again so I might as well have tried.....(typical AFC stuff)

    thanx for the help guys,
    -Sigmund

    Quick Note -- I'm 26. Why isn't there a 21-30 forum? (don't stone me to death if that's a dumb question. I'm new here)



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    I'd suggest DAFS on your sticking points. There's lots of threads already so you'l be able to read all sorts of replies.

    When she told you she was leaving... What happened? Did she 'hover' and look at you? or just leave?

    Either way if you want her number. Just ask. The worst that could happen is if she went to the DJ got a mic, got the music stoped then pays you out... But I've never heard of that happening so you'l probably just get a no....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sigmund View Post
    My question is -- How do you number close a girl you've been talking to for 5 or 6 minutes?? And especially one who is on her way out.
    Should I have just gone straight ahead with "Gimme your number..."
    I wouldnt overly complicate things here: "hey, youre a pretty cool chick - we should do this again sometime - lets exchange numbers, fair?".

    Quote Originally Posted by Sigmund View Post
    Quick Note -- I'm 26. Why isn't there a 21-30 forum? (don't stone me to death if that's a dumb question. I'm new here)
    The majority of guys fall into the demographic of 21-30 - the main board is for the majority of posts, so i guess by default this is where 21-30 guys post - but anyone is welcome there of course.
    One day my signature will be multi-coloured, multi layered, and show links to my greatest posts.... for now italics will do me....

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    "I enjoyed you smacking my ass and I would like to do it again sometime..."

    If she agrees, then you bust out your pen and notebook, and hand it to her.

    I like a target to see that I have LOTS of numbers in my black book. It is a DHV.

    Aloha

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    I like a target to see that I have LOTS of numbers in my black book. It is a DHV.
    good idea.
    i also think email closing is sometimes alot easier to do and easier to progress on an instant messanger imho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by agenda View Post
    i also think email closing is sometimes alot easier to do and easier to progress on an instant messanger imho.
    Aloha Agenda,

    You are absolutely right my friend in that an email close is easier, however I personally steer away from that. I am wanting to bridge. I feel that email and chat is a step backward. It puts up barriers and allows the target to flake or brush you off.

    When I am talking to a chick via phone she is able to pick up on my cockiness. I am able to flirt and use sexual innuendo.

    If a chick were to write her email in my black book (and it has happened) I neg her...

    "This isn't complicated. Do you see any OTHER email addresses in there?" (and smile)

    Aloha

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    true enough, just with my personal experiences I am much better on msn than the phone by far. Like i said its a personal taste i guess.
    hahaha good neg though


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    Aloha Agenda,

    Why do you feel that you are better on MSN than the phone?

    I am curious.

    Aloha

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    to be honest, i don't know i am more comfortable because im on it more i guess. that and i have 3 different residences with 3 diff. numbers i keep breaking cells:S so its usually just easier to get ahold of me on msn. that and i think that you can be more forward/playful at the same time. My online game is very good.
    idk, its easier for me to invite them over or w/e. without the girl thinking i have any sort of intentions...i make it seem more spontaneous than actually calling.


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    Aloha Agenda,

    "...on it more..."

    Good answer. You are going with your strengths, which means you will experience far more success that the dipshits that are trying to work on weaknesses and bring them up to mediocrity!

    Aloha

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