Discuss 2nd date at the The 30+ Forum within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; 2nd date
I need some good 2nd date ideas where I can definately ...
I need some good 2nd date ideas where I can definately get some kino going. I had a first date last night with good vibes from the girl but a logistical issue w/ the date. I have really good luck when kino starts early. I'm planning on sitting at the bar or one of those round bar-height tables to ket kino happening. So we meet up at an upscale bar supposedly for drinks. We bump into each other outside, go in to find the bar and tables like that full, so we get a regular table and sit face to face doing drinks and appetizers and can't really reach each other. Other than that it was cool 3 hours flew by like 5 minutes and that's coming from her. She asked me what I was doing this weekend, I told her I was busy, then she said she was too.. So I want to get a second date going where we can get some physical contact going, definately not same as before.
Also just to squash this- you guys give freat advice and I appreciate any honest assessment, but if your only response is asking if I paid for the whole thing please don't bother responding. I'm 29, so is she, and I think that may be more of a legit thing w/ younger targets, but not at 29. The girls I end up dating always try to offer at least and I think its good because that shows she is not a gold digger. She tried to throw money at me but I didn't take it and suggested she gets next time, which I'm sure will happen. This is why I post in the 30+ forum but I still hear that sometimes. Thanks-
ok so you enter together,and end up sitting oposite each other.Were there not a pair of seats next to each other?yeah I know it seems the natural thing to sit oppsite each other,she will probably have given you a suprised look.but thin kabout it,she sits expecting you to sit opposite,you stand there waiting for her to move over,"arent you gonna sit opposite me?" "no move over, im siitng here,next to you" I always do this.You can then have her touching you all nite.
never give in.never .never.never.-winston churchill 1941
yeah, the constant, what do to next- dilemma...
Försök få in flera korta promenader, och olika aktiviteter. Ett förslag vore:
1) träffas på gata A
2) promenera till mataffär för att köpa ätbart.
3) promenad till park där ni kan äta det ni köpt.
4) fortsätt till biljard, minigolf, bowling.
5) varför inte avsluta på ett fik..
Myolp skrev ett jävligt bra inlägg ett tag där han förklarade utförligt ungefär samma som jag skrev:
ett schysst kinomov som jag körde ett tag sen:
Jag: ''du, när vi först träffades var jag lite osäker på en grej..'' (avaktar en aning, kollar på henne frågande som om jag försöker lista ut ngnting..) ''men nu vet jag. vi kommer bli jätte bra kompisar.'' sen ger du henne en stor kram. Fungerade utmärkt för min del