How into me do you think this girl is- if at all?
New to the forum.
feel a bit old to be asking for advice but at my age I still need all the tips it would seem. I met this girl at the gym and we had been doing the eye contact thing for a few weeks. Shes a trainer there so last week i struck up a convo with her, lots of close deep eye contact, direct body language,smiling,touching ,asked her to be my personal trainer.
So we get our sessions going last weekend , there s a lot of touching , joking , pushing , teasing , her giggling at my crap jokes and impressions. The other day i took my watch along to train and its a big gold number so i gave it to her to hold and she insisted on wearing it on her tiny wrist and then didnt want to give it back, i got a slap on my ass from her at one point. So im like " i think i could be in there"- she is pretty damn hot but cos she is quite a few steps above me in the attractiveness stakes i kind of let myself think that i wont be able to get her so i tend to be quite reaxed with her, this has happpened before and i end up laughing the women into bed.Somehow. Anyway i ask her out after we exchange a few text messages that evening. She didnt reply to that one til the next day- her reply was - "Are you asking me on a date?"( i think i made it perfectly clear i was!) and she "cant date a client at the gym" .
Im thinking it looks to a lot of people like we may already be dating because of the amount of outrageous flirting going on- and it is pretty outrageous from both of us- but is she using the client thing as an excuse- is she just a total flirt/actress (if she is she is the best one i have ever seen)...do i keep up the flirting or do i give her the cold shoulder for a bit? how do i play it? im training with her again tomorrow