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    ok so i trained with her today- but she was really moody and aggressive towards me. evey thing i said was met with a "What???" "Why???" etc like she was just itching for a fight. She compared me to her ex boyfriend in a negative way and in fact she has mentioned her "ex" numerous times. She reckons i have had too many girlfriends and i am single cos of my own doing, she reckons i need to read "The Secret" wtf Yet she still was flirtatious, just not pleasant company to be around and she has only suddenly got like this, because i told her the obvious which is that i like her. So what now? I wont be rewarding this behaviour, i am really disappointed in her now....



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    I've been in situations like this with bar tenders and waitresses. I usually try to make the first meet up as casual as possible. Meeting at the mall to buy new shoes is a good one....ice cream, at the mall....if it seems casual to her then she might use chick logic to come up with the idea that because it's a casual meet-up then it's not breaking any of her rules. Once you meet outside of her work setting you can DHV, kino, tease...ect. I like casual meetings to be at the mall because it seems like "not a big deal" to the girl. But it's so easy to bounce her from place to place, and flirt with her while you're walking around, and then the fact that she feels really safe and secure in a mall. It's really easy to build comfort too. I might start out with ice cream....then half-way down the mall we'll go, to a clothing store to try on sun-glasses, hats and the like. If there's enough comfort I"ll usually lead her to a small lounge or bar inside the mall and buy her a drink. So what was originally supposed to be a short meet-up can lead to a four hour date. This usually leads to solid kino. Then later in the week there is usually another meet-up. This has been solid game for me.

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    hmmm i dunno what im supposed to be doing now...we had a text convo on sunday night..she just texted me out of the blue and the convo ended with her telling me "youre so hilarious and cute" but i think she may have caught onto my one-itis (reading a bit more about the whole syndrome i have to put my hands up and admit i had the oneitis over this girl- i think i dont have it now, cos ive realised she can be a bit of a miserable bitch and honestly her best feature now for me is her tits and i want to bed her)...im expecting a text either today or tomorrow cos she cant go 2 or 3 days without the attention surely? can anyone? i dont think i have completely blow my chances with her, i reckon i can trun this stuff around again, more teasing and just general keeping my distance until i see her again>?

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    Yeah, it sounds like you still have a chance to get her into bed. The whole work thing is just her trying to convince you and herself that she isnt a slut. Its more of her protecting her image that an actualy obstacle. If you just ignore it you will be all good I think.

    Yeah, text her back when you have the time. Keep busy, and keep interacting with other women. Dont put all your eggs in this basket.

    Try to get her out again, it shouldnt be too hard if she is initiating contact again. Try and be her last PT for the day or something, and get her out to a bar after work. Drinking is a great social lubrication and will hopefully get her out of 'work mode'.

    Once you have her out, it shouldnt be that big a task to bed her, as you have built up significant attraction comfort and she is qualifying herself to you. So only one more step

    TIP: Dont let the texting become your main source of interaction. You really should only be texting when you have a purpose for the text. If it is just to shoot the shit, keep it to an absolute minimum. If you want to shoot the shit with her, get her on the phone (even that though should have a purpose... I.E. Getting her over for an adult sleepover )
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    she called me yesterday...she wants me to take her out on sunday night to watch the football...she knows i will be with friends and drinking so it is a chance to social proof me....not a chance to date me....

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    If you are going out together, even with a group. Its a date.

    There are multiple threads on this, but here is the downlow

    Make sure you dont iscolate yourselves from the group all night.
    When in conversation, conerse with her, and the group (had a little side conversation going on as well)
    When you are seated, sit next to her.
    Plenty of Kino etc
    Dont go for the kiss infront of all your friends, try and get her alone, but do it during the date.
    Make sure your friends are going to AMOG you, and fuck it up.
    Try and get her to have a few dirnks as well, bit of social lubricant never hurt.

    Good luck mate. if she is coming out, your half way there.
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    oh well

    its Tuesday

    the usual flriting and stuff this evening. more compliments from her side. I check out what she is doing sunday - ie 5 days away...plans already made for sunday it seems.... Oh well.
    Time to absolutely let this one go. A very powerful lesson in one-itis this has been , i have no idea what i did wrong becasue it seemed like everything i did was right...fck

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    ..wtf...i ended up in hopsital at the weekend.. she shows up for 2 hours after her work and without even having her dinner, and brings me a cuddly toy.

    I am totally flummoxed by this one. Totally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hawkman View Post
    ..wtf...i ended up in hopsital at the weekend.. she shows up for 2 hours after her work and without even having her dinner, and brings me a cuddly toy.

    I am totally flummoxed by this one. Totally.
    Why? I would do that for a friend or lover.

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