... I want kids dilemma.
I'm in search for some enlightenment from the experienced ones. So i greatly appreciate any wisdom shared, advice given or even a bit of your spare time spent on reading this post.
My private life is quite an intricate subject. It turns out to be that somehow i primarily attract girls that are in the "i want to start a family age" (empirically, it is around 25-28 y.o.). I dunno they just gravitate towards me, appear in my life all of a sudden.
So at the moment i'm dating a 27 y.o. girl (she's not the only one, but i'm attracted to her the most), she is extremely conscious about her age, constantly talking about her biological clock. I'm really into her - she's got amazing body, expressive facial features, sexy voice and presence. We've been through 2 fantastic dates - attraction went great, qualification worked out, comfort is there - more over - i believe we have some chemistry going on. What really gets me nervous - she told me very frankly (right on the second date) - i want to find a man and have kids, something like - my time is up.
I know how to lead things further. But the question is - do I really need that? I want some casual dating. I would love to have her as a girlfriend. And sure enough, i want to get her laid - what's wrong with that? But kids... No, i cannot even take care of my cat - that is not a choice at the moment. There are studies, career perspectives, too much stuff to handle ...
What bothers me, is the wicked responsibility - if i were to get her laid and gave up afterwards - i would loose her and would coin myself an image of a "prick". If i stop my advancements now, which is actually a good thing to do in a rational sense, i would befriend and definitely loose her.
Ridiculous. Since i'm not as experienced in this stuff as you guys, i'm really looking forward to your ideas and rationalizations on that subject.
Thanks in advance.