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Thread: She wants me to call this guy who's being an ass

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    Default She wants me to call this guy who's being an ass

    Well this guy is being an ass hole to my HB8 I've been gaming, and she texted me saying this man is texting her all this shit about how's she a bitch because she wont talk to him ect. So I felt in a nice mood and I said "oh well you want me to say something?" and she sent me his number. Well fuck, now what? I mean I'll call him, but what do I say? Just be like oh don't be a douche? or what... Should I mention something about HB8?

    Eh nvm I got it handled called the guy and explained to him why she doesn't talk to him ect. and it's 4th of July, lets put this behind us. We all got this handled.
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    uhhh...... next will you be getting her groceries too? of how bout fetching her mail?

    why fend off guys from a girl your not with? you don't know, he could be a psycho stalker who would kill any guy she talks to..... i wouldn't risk it.

    it was nice of you to suggest helping but unless she was all mine, i wouldn't act like she was. tell her how she should handle it.
    1-block his calls
    2- block his messages
    3-move on and ignore him

    the thing about most women is that they always have to have the last word and thats probably what's keeping her from ignoring him. she's stuck on respond mode if he says anything to her

    tell her it wouldn't help if you said anything, say it has to come from her to have any effect


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    uhhh...... Next will you be getting her groceries too? Of how bout fetching her mail?

    Why fend off guys from a girl your not with? You don't know, he could be a psycho stalker who would kill any guy she talks to..... I wouldn't risk it.

    It was nice of you to suggest helping but unless she was all mine, i wouldn't act like she was. Tell her how she should handle it.
    1-block his calls
    2- block his messages
    3-move on and ignore him

    the thing about most women is that they always have to have the last word and thats probably what's keeping her from ignoring him. She's stuck on respond mode if he says anything to her

    tell her it wouldn't help if you said anything, say it has to come from her to have any effect
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    Quote Originally Posted by koxo View Post
    Well this guy is being an ass hole to my HB8 I've been gaming, and she texted me saying this man is texting her all this shit about how's she a bitch because she wont talk to him ect. So I felt in a nice mood and I said "oh well you want me to say something?" and she sent me his number. Well fuck, now what? I mean I'll call him, but what do I say? Just be like oh don't be a douche? or what... Should I mention something about HB8?

    Eh nvm I got it handled called the guy and explained to him why she doesn't talk to him ect. and it's 4th of July, lets put this behind us. We all got this handled.
    It's a shit test. Girls use to try this on me to see how much control over me they could have. I wouldn't do anything about it unless you're actually seeing the girl.

    In the future when this situation comes up you're going to basically empathize with her and say, "I have complete confidence you'll be able to handle this yourself."

    Or something similar. It's the same drill for when your girlfriend complains about some bitch at work and doesn't actually want you to do anything about it, but wants you to agree with her and listen. It's one of the hardest traps for us guys not to fall into. We typically want to fix whatever's wrong and move on and not sitting around emoting.



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    Quote Originally Posted by YouWish99 View Post
    It's a shit test. Girls use to try this on me to see how much control over me they could have. I wouldn't do anything about it unless you're actually seeing the girl.
    Yep totally, true you aren't a dacing monkey. Just giving advice would work. Dont talk to the person or say something about it. It will only lower your value (DLV)



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    "you want me to talk to him?"

    you should offer what i offer when a girl has any sort of problem:

    a) DO YOU WANT ME TO BEAT HIM/HER UP?
    [of course not being serious, but its funny when she complains about her annoying little niece]

    b) DO YOU WANT ME TO MASSAGE IT?
    [goes great for "my shoulders hurt", even better for "my stomach hurts"]


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