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    still able to get out of the Friend Zone?

    Known a girl at work for about a month now then a big complicated cluster**** ensued (good friend with gf who he wanted to marry cockblocked me and made out with work girl) but her and I are back to normal.
    After all this she still flirts with me at work everyone sees it, says I'm hot and cute, nearly made out a work a few times (before the cluster****, i didn't engage in case the boss walked in, he was in our vicinity), however we went to dinner and a movie recently (1st time out alone with her) and she said i was more of a brother to her at dinner but then i did some of the kino tactics sparingly on our "date" at the movies, walking back to the car (arm around her, playful hits/bumps) and she was responsive to that.
    Right now I'm just breaking contact with her (I've only known her for about a month though is 2-3 weeks too much or what) is it still possible to pursue?



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    still able to escape friend zone?

    Known a girl at work for about a month now then a big complicated cluster**** ensued (good friend with gf who he wanted to marry cockblocked me and made out with work girl) but her and I are back to normal.
    After all this she still flirts with me at work everyone sees it, says I'm hot and cute, nearly made out a work a few times (before the cluster****, i didn't engage in case the boss walked in, he was in our vicinity), however we went to dinner and a movie recently (1st time out alone with her) and she said i was more of a brother to her at dinner but then i did some of the kino tactics sparingly on our "date" at the movies, walking back to the car (arm around her, playful hits/bumps) and she was responsive to that.
    Right now I'm just breaking contact with her (I've only known her for about a month though is 2-3 weeks too much or what) is it still possible to pursue?

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    WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



    I think dinner nd movies was a bad idea, it just kinda puts you in chode frame.

    Here's what I'd do mate, and this is provided you're pretty good at pickup/escalation already...

    Get the girl out, but get her out ON YOUR TERMS.

    One of the biggest leaps forward I made in pickup was when I (accidentally) started doing a repeatable date where I take a really hot girl out, and

    1) Go for drink in my hometown
    2) Without telling her, take her out to play and teach her pool
    3) next venue pub-near to home
    4) Off to my 'garden' to have a 'glass of wine' with her...

    It's a date where I'M in control and KNOW where it's heading.
    Try doing something where you invite her into YOUR world.
    Dinner and movies without any physical action is kinda 'anti-pickup'. You've probably put yourself in friendzone,
    soz!!!!

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    hoy shit man im the same kind of situation right now, not with a cluster fuck as big as that but with a couple weird situations ANYWAYS yea im trying the phase out thing aswell for a little while let me know if it works for you

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    will do man, how long have you known the girl? it's only been a month for me so yeah still might be possible to get out

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    ok cool thanks for that, i'm just doing the phasing out thing now, it's only been a month so yeah anythings possible, she's only 17 so some places to hang out are out of the question

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    OP: In the future, just post one thread on a subject.

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