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I # closed an HB8.5 after the club a while ago. Before getting ...
I # closed an HB8.5 after the club a while ago. Before getting the number she saw me have major preselection and a lot of DHV's.
We texted for a while and she showed quite a bit of interest. After adding me on Facebook, I did the fatal drunk-dial. Needless to say, she didn't return my message.
I texted her a week later and got no response. Another 2 weeks later I decided to send one last message before I would delete her number. This time I got a response and she agreed to come party at a local bar with my friends. I never actually saw her because we miscommunicated the location.
After a few days she stopped responding to my messages, and I heard from a good buddy that an HB he games, who happens to be friends with my HB, told him I had sent her a creepy message. I know what I sent and now realize it could have been easily misconstrued.
We talked on Facebook messenger about it and she started showing a lot of interest again. I saw her friend at the club and she kept making comments that the HB and I should get together. However, when I saw the HB that night she was very distant.
It wasn't until the end of the night that she approached me. We spoke for about 5 seconds until she walked away, very inebriated I may add.
What do I do from here? I don't particularly care about this HB, but I am very curious how a player would handle this situation.
Thanks in advance!
I'm sure there are other players who would like to know as well.
damn you labeled into the most dreaded area ever, CREEPY. being called creepy in any way even if its just one creepy message can ruin you. ive asked many girls and the worst thing a girl can call you or think about you is that you are creepy. id move on. i wish i had some advice to get out of it but i dont
Yeah, R V C A is right. Creepy is the worst possible thing to be no matter how minor or major it is. It'll be really hard to move from that label as anything you do or say will seem contrived. Just move on and re-evaluate what you said to get that label and make sure not to do it again.