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I feel like in ...
Is your sticking point that you rely only on the vibes?
I feel like in any interaction i have with a girl when trying to sarge.. my feedback senses completely rely on feeling her vibes. it works like this:
b. I sense that shes feeling me -> further escalation
c. comfort zone
d. shes no longer as interested (vibes go bad) -> eject
b. I sense that she doesn't feel me -> eject.
at any time in ANY interaction w/ a girl (even if i fucked her already).. a change from good vibes to bad vibes means i leave the situation. its like an instinctive reaction that i feel would be hard to control. My question is this:
should i rely totally on my reading-the-vibes skills?? should i be looking for something else?? should i simply ignore the vibes and plow through relentlessly? What do you guys do?
"The only way to make the future is to leave the past."
I do exactly the same Would like to know if we're right (Is that what is meant by callibration?)