Discuss girls calls me short!!!? at the The 18-21 Forum within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; LittlbigD's advice of ignoring it is your best bet but I can give you some ...
LittlbigD's advice of ignoring it is your best bet but I can give you some solace in the fact that you’re not alone. Dude I am 5'2" and have gotten short jokes my whole life. My mother used to put my stuff up on the highest shelf in the house just for laughs so trust me man it’s not that bad. I still get laughs outta my family when we mention the one chick I dated that was 6'2" now THAT is comedy. Being short is nothing to really let get to you. Things that you cannot change shouldn’t be the focus of your game any how.
Originally Posted by PingJockey
One of the guys I am trying to help sarge is also around 5'2''. He all but refused to open girls taller than him (most of them out here). I had to fight him tooth and nail to stop giving a crap about his height and to just start opening sets and stop being goal driven. Once he started he had a lot of success.
Yes some girls don't want to date a guy who they think is "too short". So what? Some girls won't date me because I am too old. Some won't date me because I am not built like the incredible hulk. Some won't date me because I am simply not their type in humour or looks. It all doesn't mean shit. I still get laid nearly every night now.
Just never show it affects you, never let it bring you down. Don't forget, this is their hangup and not your problem, never allow it to reframe you and change your own self concept, it is the stupid shallow cows loss. There are so many fish in the sea... and once you are sick of dating the fish, theres a few billion women in the world for afters.
as said prior, don't let it get to you, though i am 6'2", i find it a bit of a disadvantage being taller than most guys. what i mean by that is everytime i work or kick it with my friends and they need me to grab something off the high shelf, and me being...me, i do it. it blows wind and not the funny kind that make paint peel off the walls. so use it to your advantage
don't get the cock block, block your cock
Here, telling something about your penis isn't going to get you more value because you'll probably seem like every other guys bragging about the size of their crotch.
You can say something like : "Height is measured after(over) the shoulder" as if you measure somebody by his intellect (his head). I don't know how to say it so it sound good in English, but in french it goes like: On mesure un homme Ó partir des Úpaules.
A teacher gave us that when we laughed about another (really small but very intelligent) teacher. The student just couldn't say anything more to argue!
Or like the others said, you can just go on and continue your sarge as if nothing happened to show that your height does not matter to you.
its either her testing you or some miscalibration in ur game, Style is only 5'6 himself. and im a short dude, as long as u play it right, that dont mean nothing. yea alot of great comeback lines on this thread
Originally Posted by crypro
you guys amaze me!
how stupid can i be to not relize this in the start, i find my height not an issue anymore! i even befriended a girl 1.87m tall we go 2 eachothers houses for sleepovers, we then go clubbing together she is an exellent wing and friend... she gives me social proof and her friends really love me, im d8ing her friend at the momment shes 1.72! taller than me my height doesnt bother her at all! she finds it cute infact lol the point is that its not YOUR height that will make a girl unattracted to you! its all about your character so trust me on my experience guys that dont let your height be an issue to you watever the weather!
all my parents are short and they told me that most short people are more successful than tall people because they feel like they have to prove something and work harder ! ofcourse this could be debated but its my parents opinion !
good luck with your game guys and thank you!
Whatever your response, don't qualify yourself back to her (saying stuff like "oh but my cock is big"/"not where it counts" etc), and don't attack her back ("you're too xyz"), unless you do it in a very funny/jokey way that makes it clear you're really not bothered by her comment (if you do it the wrong way you'll come across defensive).
1.68 isnt really that short.. there are lots of girls that are shorter then that.. just go for the shorties instead.
Seems to me that your parents are trying to justify themselves being short, instead of accepting it as part of who you are and moving on!
Originally Posted by crypro
Your height is in no way a handicap to anything other than maybe getting a career as a giant and travelling with a circus! Seems to me that you are for now over these issues so that's good =).
Good luck out there and enjoy yourselves! And remember: We all have some physical characteristic we don't like about ourselves and cannot change! But when it is something you truly have no control over... why let it get to you? accept it and move on! If other people are so shallow as to be put off by this one thing... screw them! They surely are not worth your time anyway!