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I´m an 18 year old guy in Gothenburg, Sweden who ...
Turning the game around!
I´m an 18 year old guy in Gothenburg, Sweden who about a year ago with my friend got sick of the same patterns we saw and experienced with girls we met. One night we sat down at a hotel where we were staying during a wrestling competition, and had an all-nighter (an all night discussion that is) about how unfair the whole mating game is to us men (actually when I look back now with the knowledge I have , it was a crime to call ourselves men at that time) , because it always seemed to be the girls/women who chose, they seemed that they could be satisfied whenever they wanted , while we men had to go hungry , while the women had the power to chose, we men had only hope? So we said to eachother that there´s gotta be another way,the equation had to be solved in some way or another. God we were such AFCs back then..At least I was! I so angry and frustrated that girls ,GIRLS could have more power than me in that area!
Don´t ask me how , but suddenly I ran into David DeAngelo´s stuff, and I started studying it and WOW! I became a whole other person. My point of view became totally different from before, because when I understood how it all worked I started seeing , not only the "mating game" differently , but the world from a whole different perspective. Though I am still a beginner at this I have started to study David´s Body Language Program, e-book, Inner Game stuff etc... and David DeAngelo´s ways to teach fits me perfectly. That we men through self improvement can become magnets to women , sometimes without even saying a word. And thats TRUE! I have started to experience it myself lately!.. But the ULTIMATE question to you all is , can the Game be turned around completely? So much that girls just want to approach you instead?!
Originally Posted by Flowcan
Ability is what you're capable of doing
Motivation determines what you do
Attitude determines how well you do it.
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