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    Getting blown out in a non-conventional way

    Ok, i have been reading about all the theory for months, and i only got the guts to go and try it. I went to the mall to my first sarge, but did i have problems.
    The first set i find are not the normal kind. Like hb10s, sitting together, which soon caused AA to show, but i thought what the hell, i wo't get better, if i dont start now, so i might as well start at the top. I ran an opener, which ran kind of well, not sure, cause one of them was attentive, but the other looked dazed. So in the middle of the opener i was about drop a neg, but then this guy came out of nowhere and sat down there, and told them he was my friend. I didnt even know this guy, but man did he smell and looked like a garbage guy. Once he sat down, there goes everything, i tried saying i dont know him, but it seemed too late, and the girls lost interest, so i ejected.
    Ok so i thought bad first experience, but what a way to go, i coldnt even tell if i did anything right or wrong, cause of this idiot, junky 17 year old bum. Ok now for the next few attempts, guess who comes in messes them up too. Ok god, did i get the worst luck ever, and threatening didnt even work on him, the security in mall prevented him from getting knocked out. So i just called it a day.
    I won't even count today as my first day of sarging, cause of that, but what are you supposed if someone is so persistant, of making your life hell, for god knows what reason. Plus i dont know why, but after all that happened, i felt lifeless, and couldnt be bothered to do anything. That was really weird. I actually got in one uninterrupted sarge in, with a 2 hb8s, sitting together, but i dont know what happened. I read everything about inner game, and i'm pretty confident, but as soon as a delivered an opener, they started giving off bad vibes, like why is this guy bothering us. I used a FTC, and used an opener, i used the 2 part kiss opener. I wonder as i used it in the mall, was why it didnt work, but i had no real responses. I dont know what i should do with this day. Is this a typical bad day, or should i write it off as a one off, never gonna happen day.
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    Odd situation indeed. If he had the balls to say that you all knew each other, then take it a run with it. Tell the girls that you booth went to preschool together, pulled a caper with him, saved the world, made a movie, whatever--and that you are always looking after him. Make it over the top and establish that you run his shit. Ask him if he remembers some of that crazy shit you did together. See if he plays along. If he sucks/smells bad, donít you become better by comparison? Own the frame, and force the interloper to comply with your world, the one he doesn't know but decided to invite himself into. I am a Recovering AFC, but these are my thoughts on the situation. I am sorry I can't come up with better examples; in field I suppose I would ad lib all of this, but what I would do is not deny your "friendship"; use it to DHV, blow him out, and get good practice at on-the-fly bulshit that is so crucial to this endeavor. Props for making a movie on hb10s on a first go around!

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    It not that i didnt think of tooling him, but god i didnt want to be called a friend. That would kill my value, you hang out with people like him, plus i dont know, i got some huge negative energy, from the girls, who before he came, i had full attention from them, but didn't that fly out of the window. I found out one thing though, eventhough i got blown out, i was kinda happy, cause i didnt even want to attempt that, but after i did, i felt happy, i was able to approach, and i dont remember what the fuss was, over my AA. I felt like i froze, but after that i felt so much better.

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    Just tool him in front of the first couple of sets and he won't be back to cockblock. Telling a story about how he always followed you around because you saved him from some bullies and now you try to take care of him would be solid, or maybe talk about him like a stray dog you found with the "Can I keep him mom?" and everything. Blow the guy out, and if he doesn't eject you'll at least completely make him seem like an ass. You prolly won't get the HB's but see if he follows you to the next set.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xJCx View Post
    Ok, i have been reading about all the theory for months, and i only got the guts to go and try it. I went to the mall to my first sarge, but did i have problems.
    The first set i find are not the normal kind. Like hb10s, sitting together, which soon caused AA to show, but i thought what the hell, i wo't get better, if i dont start now, so i might as well start at the top. I ran an opener, which ran kind of well, not sure, cause one of them was attentive, but the other looked dazed. So in the middle of the opener i was about drop a neg, but then this guy came out of nowhere and sat down there, and told them he was my friend. I didnt even know this guy, but man did he smell and looked like a garbage guy. Once he sat down, there goes everything, i tried saying i dont know him, but it seemed too late, and the girls lost interest, so i ejected.
    Ok so i thought bad first experience, but what a way to go, i coldnt even tell if i did anything right or wrong, cause of this idiot, junky 17 year old bum. Ok now for the next few attempts, guess who comes in messes them up too. Ok god, did i get the worst luck ever, and threatening didnt even work on him, the security in mall prevented him from getting knocked out. So i just called it a day.
    I won't even count today as my first day of sarging, cause of that, but what are you supposed if someone is so persistant, of making your life hell, for god knows what reason. Plus i dont know why, but after all that happened, i felt lifeless, and couldnt be bothered to do anything. That was really weird. I actually got in one uninterrupted sarge in, with a 2 hb8s, sitting together, but i dont know what happened. I read everything about inner game, and i'm pretty confident, but as soon as a delivered an opener, they started giving off bad vibes, like why is this guy bothering us. I used a FTC, and used an opener, i used the 2 part kiss opener. I wonder as i used it in the mall, was why it didnt work, but i had no real responses. I dont know what i should do with this day. Is this a typical bad day, or should i write it off as a one off, never gonna happen day.
    You did awesome, inner game is experience not reading( that means doing something with it-be it approaches or meditation for example), stop being so hard on yourself, start having fun..cause my impression is your ain't. To simplify have fun, know who you are, talk.

    PS: About the dude, you can take a couple views, mine would be "cool, I got a new pal."

    Best, Dragon
    Fear of what you can do is an illusion, what you can do is a illusion of fear.

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    Thats kl, ill try that. How about when you open sets, and the opener doesnt stick like you want. When i tried that a very hot set, i felt like an ass, cause one of them looked interested, just in me, not what i was saying, but the other, blew me off, when i was like half way through it. What is a good way to eject, if u feel uncomfortable, or how can reinterest the set. worst case scenario.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xJCx View Post
    Thats kl, ill try that. How about when you open sets, and the opener doesnt stick like you want. When i tried that a very hot set, i felt like an ass, cause one of them looked interested, just in me, not what i was saying, but the other, blew me off, when i was like half way through it. What is a good way to eject, if u feel uncomfortable, or how can reinterest the set. worst case scenario.
    Say something then leave...can be anything from "Nice meeting ya'all but I gotta bounce" to "Pleasure meeting you all" to "You guys are cool, lets chill sometime, heres my #" to "Cya! ". Get the point?

    Its not what you say its who you are and your attitude. As of feeling like an ass, if something ain't comfortable don't do it, that simple (not being yourself/doing only because you want to). But don't confuse that with not doing it because your uncomfortable (anxiety/excuses).

    Best, Dragon
    Fear of what you can do is an illusion, what you can do is a illusion of fear.

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    ok cool, thanks for that. I'll try that next time i get in that kind of problem. Oh yea is it good to overdress, in like the mall, but can it ever be counterproductive, to be overdressed like in the mall where everyone looks so normal. Also what do you do if you can't even force yourself to go sarge the super UGs, should i just do it, or look for more viable targets(which is rare as far as i can see), as running game on those girls, won't really help in the future as there is no AA, and those girls love to blow off guys, that are good looking, which i have been told a lot( not being cocky), to raise their own value.

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    Reread...almost all the question your going to ask are in what I said in the above 2 answers. Make a effort man. Enough silver platter shit. Think on the answers you receive(past, present and future), think and do application.

    Nuff said.

    Best, Dragon
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