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- 03-13-2007, 02:35 PM #1
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Go ahead and skip to the story, it's readable without the background, however I felt I'd give it to ya.....
Just like a movie...
Quick Background- This is one of my ex-gf's best friends...me and my ex went out for 1.5 months...I hadn't known this chick previously...We exchanged a few lines on aim...She's a Senior like my ex, I'm a Junior...She's a blonde, 9 on my scale...nice slim proportional body, along with a pretty face...Had a "flirtatious" attitude, not necessarily flirty, just that attitude while we chatted the few times...basically it had been about my last her friend my gf...so after we broke it off me and this chick hung out at Caribou one night for like 2 hours...great chatting, played the question game, talked more about her "annoying/boring" bf of a year and a half..., he called a few times, message, text, she didn't listen/read...when she was dropping me off she stalled, drove the long way, ended up dropping me off at school so I could work in the shop...so I thought it had went well, our first time ever hanging out never even had with the old gf...there was lots of smiling/laughing, and she was even more open about her sexual experiences, and her self described sex-obsession...
Hopefully you can all see why I thought it had gone well, there was obviously a little tension, and this had given me a little comfort...so I called her a few days later, tried to find some more time to hang out, but we couldn't, she had her birthday that weekend, we had hung out Tues., with friends and family, and so I gave her a call and that was about it...news spread (from me) that I was after her, basically I had gotten a new chick at work the night before I broke up with my last one(different story), and then while tlking to some others I said I was "open to the idea" with this chick...I thought I was cool with them, but they proceeded to tell my old gf EVERYTHING, made her HATE me, and basically made my new one break it off...so I was under the impression there was no way gf#1 hadn't chatted it up with her best friend...I sent her friend an email telling her I'd guessed she'd caught the hate wave emanating from Caitlin and that was too bad...she said it was too bad I had assumed that...this was after over a week of her not answering her phone, I musta called 4 or so times...so we set it up, last Sunday night we were to hang out and discuss this...
THE STORY-So she picks me up at like 7:30....we have no plan WHATSOEVER...she had already eaten dinner with her family...we literally ride around town in her car listening to music and chatting for about an hour trying to think of something to do...we stop for gas and drive some more...so we're bouncing some ideas around...I explain I had wanted to go to this Coffee house in the city I'd heard about, but she had already been to Caribou with a pal today so I thought that'd be a little redundant...We decided we plan to go to Camp Snoopy soon, she loved the idea, but it was too late it'd have been closed...I throw out going on top of a parking ramp to pick people off with snowballs...she excitedly declines after some thought of not getting into any trouble...but she decided she wanted to do something outside...it's kinda muddy here right now as the snow melts, but I agreed the temp was great...so asks
"Do you like playgrounds?"-K
"ehh, I don't know...OOOH!!"-Me and I give her that backhanded excited jump hit...
"Chutes and ladders!!!"-me
I explain it's the biggest playground I've ever been to...it was a city away, and I really didn't know how to get there, called up my bud, got some directions and we were off...
We stopped and got some energy drinks, RockStar Juiced, she had never had one....
So we show up and of course it was closed, it being about 9:15 by now...So we play around on the crap, just climbing it and junk...fun I guess, the MASSIVE slide was padlocked, that was a bummer...we climbed this serious of nets and when on the top I suggested a race, we climb down and she gets a good head start, I lose my shoe and demand a rematch after she wins...We climb back down and...
"Alright, I'm getting serious this time..."-me
I take off my sweatshirt, glasses and then my t, so I just have my beater on... she starts as I do, and complains that
"That's unfair, you have less clothes than me...I can't take anything else off!"-K
"Yes you can."-me
and I pull off one of 2 beaters she had been wearing...it was kinda sexy...she gets her head start and beats me again...I start throwing snowballs at her and chase her around with some snow...
"Not in my face!!!, put it in on my back, just not my face!!!"-K
So I grab her, put some down her shirt, front and back, and rub it in in the back...She puts me in a head lock
"I wrestled..(Don't remember his name)..last week...."-K
"I'm sure you kicked his ass..."-Me
"Yea I did."-K
I proceed to pick her up in a cradle while she has me in this head lock.
"What!?!, that's unfair, you can't do that, he didn't do that..."-K
I look at her eyes and move in for a nice lips only kiss...I pull back and look into her eyes again...
"Tommy, you can't do that, I have a bf...."-K (said in a whispery, do it, playfully innocent way)
"I just did."-Me
I set her down and push her up against the wall and we have a little make out...She badgers me for the time and it's like 9:45 by now...she is suppose to be home by 10, and we are about 25 minutes from our neighborhoods...
so we climb down one flight of nets and I grab her again, throw her to the ground(softly) get on her and we make out some more...she stops me and says we really have to go...
So we climb down, grab our drinks, and as we are walking to our stuff she asks me how big a player I am...apparently gf#1 had told her that I was going after all her friends and acted particularly mad at her, but not mentioned any details...K had also known about gf#2 whom I had started dating the night before I broke it off with gf#1, both from work...so I am pretty evasive, ask her what she thinks, what scale, etc...we are climbing over the little entrance fence and I grab her around the waist, I tell her
"How big of a player are you, I think you get what you want..."-me
"What!?!, why do you think that??"-k
"well, you wanted me."-me
blah blah, your pretty cocky but I like it sorta stuff, we make out a little more...we get in the car, she asks for directions, I make her figure it out, she gets somewhat mad, but we have a nice ride back, get dropped off, give her a goodbye kiss after a nice flirtatious argument about wanting to to hit me based on me being disappointed she failed to follow through on a previous threat...
I call her wanting to hear how our planned excuse went over with her parents...she doesn't answer...yesterday she sent me a fb message and here's that and my response...
K: last night kind of rocked my pants off.
i didn't pick up my phone cause my parents would have yelled at me, it was too late to take phone calls.
you should probably be proud, you're the cause of the hugest fight ever between me and my boyfriend.
we worked it out...
you and i need to hang out again. if you're up for it..
Me: honestly, I don't think I'm gonna be up for it anytime soon...I've been running a little low on energy lately, and I really need to buckle down and get focused on my studies....but maybe I can pound a rockstar and give it a go...haha yea I'll call you...ciaou
so I gave her a call, decently funny message, we chatted on aim, she was busy tonight, but we haven't set up another meeting yet, I might call her later tonight, might just go online and see if she's on, but I'm leaning towards waiting and just giving her a call tomorrow or thursday after school...
ok so I have this new scheme I thought up and I wanna run it by you guys...
So I take a card from a deck and write a quote on it that makes her think...the first being the Ace of Hearts, and "Why go out on a limb??..Cause that's where the fruit is."-Mark Twain...or interesting little lines like..."I can be whatever you want."...or questions...whatever...then I continue to give her one not every day due to constraints, but each time I see her till the deck is gone...then I proceed to give her the box with a bracelet or some shit in it, with a not or written on the box that the deck is in her hands now...and make her choose between her bf and me or some shit...actually I'm not sure about that ultimatum, cause I actually dig the whole cheating thing and there's massive potential for a long term fb here, but we'll see as time progresses, but what do you guys think about the main idea of it??
Any and all input/questions/responses/critiques are welcomed and VERY much appreciated...
Caiou"crocodile style...The idea is to do almost no work, but take down the best prey... like a crocodile does..."-BradP
"Don't get mad, get laid."-BradP
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