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So I got this girl in my class, weve been talking for ...
Help with HB9
So I got this girl in my class, weve been talking for the past couple weeks and I think she's getting interested cause she starting to initiate conversations, smile a lot, and laugh at my jokes (even the dumb ones to). But I've been out of my game for a while and I wanna ask her on a date but I'd want to make sure she says yes so I don't botch it and make it awkward for the rest of the semester...any ideas on how to get more chemistry or ask her out without ruining anything?
Just say you're going out somewhere, ie party, concert, anything, and say she can come too if she wants. If she says yes then you got yourself a 'date', although I would never use that word, and if she says no then it's no problem because you didn't actually ask her out. Just act like it's no big deal, whether she says yes or no.
Yeah thats how your suppose to ask someone out anyway. Don't get too serious when you say it, do it casually like you would if you offer gum to anyone.
Originally Posted by Shevchenko
Dance for me woman!
yeah, your right, that seems simple enough.....I would like to build the chemistry a bit though cause I know she's starting to get interested, is the only way do this through kino? if so, it could be difficult in a classroom setting, plus I'd feel kinda awkward just reaching out and touching her? any ideas?
why don't you just ask her to go do something?
find a concert or something - an event you want to go to that looks like fun - and ask her to come along.
the problem with hot girls in class is they have lives outside of seeing you every day. If she initiates conversation and seems to like you, then she likes you - that doesn't mean she won't have a boyfriend by next tuesday.
trust me, I waited on a number of chicks from classes that I could have boned because a few weeks, a month later, guess what? she wasn't available anymore.
time-sensitive. chicks are time-sensitive. there is no save feature. you don't get to start again tomorrow at the point you left off.
Like you said it's hard to build chemistry in class, so just try to arrange meetings outside of school.
Originally Posted by Rockstarr