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I got her mail, msn, phone number and ...
what is she thinking?
I got her mail, msn, phone number and last saturday I went out with her in a walk. We talk for about 3 hours...she looked me in the eyes, she laught and I drive her to her house.
I've send some sms's but her answers were very distant...very uninteresting...She'll have a math test next Friday...
Now I ask: What can I do to gain a little more interest from her? (I'm not asking the full algorithm to get her :P only some hints)
Thanks for the support!
please be more specific, its hard to tell what she thinking with that breif little story. From what i could pull out, you didn't build up enough attraction and might get ljbf'd soon. try to create some some attraction, otherwise just move on.
so you probably began building comfort before you had a considerable amount of attraction. By constantly messeging her, your conveying your neediness and that you have no other woman in your life. BAD MOVE
so forget her for a couple a day...make her come to you.
As for revamping her attraction, you can go back and forth in the M3 model (if that's what you using), just start flipping her attraction switches, start conveying to her that YOU are the prize.
you must not be needy
Originally Posted by Bagser
Originally Posted by bad_religion_au
Agree with the above posters.
Originally Posted by CeRe4L
what sms did you send anyway? Most of the time, if you ask boring questions, you get boring answers.
You don't want "interest" from her. You want her to feel attracted to you.
Hint1: get the VAH and learn the mechanism of attraction [A2 and A3].
Hint2: Look for the Attraction Forums for some fieldtested material. Read the best of forums for several inner game resources.
A girl looking at you in the eyes does not necessarily imply attraction. Etiquette usually recommends you look at someone in the eyes when talking to them.
(If you've never failed, you've never lived.)
I'm thinking you needed to do way more kino and escelation.
I think you put your self in friends zone and now you're hinting at wanting a sexual relationship which is making her uncomfortable.