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    Need Help with this girl i like? and she likes me?

    Theres this one girl i randomly came across again. i known her since gr 10 and i liked her then too, but she didn't really like me ( i was also a shit ton fatter) we haven't talked much since and we just started talking again. She really likes me, and i can tell. she tweets about me, sends really enthused texts and flirts a little over text.

    She's coming to my hotel party this weekend for my birthday ( and dt, yes were drinking) , and she's excited! how should i go about doing this without getting in the friend zone. I really wanna "hook up" but she's a good girl type and she won't. She's pretty much GF material and she's REALLY, REALLY looking for a bf, she tweets 24/7

    Im looking to date her, what should I do this weekend when i see her again???

    Need help IM a SUPER noob! and kinda shy...



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    If its your party, you should take lots of opportunities to introduce her to other people, and DH Social Value whenever you can. You will know basically everyone there, so this shouldnt be too difficult.

    Make sure you dont just hover around her, and let her fend for herself a little bit in terms of the social group. Dont just babysit her all night.

    If she is already into you, at a good opportunity, get her alone, and go the K-Close. After a few drinks (not too many). Dont get way to drunk. This tends to happen when you are younger, and believe me, it is not a good look. It is usually a massive turn off for girls as well if they arent at your drunk level.

    Get some cool DHV stories going with your buddies, and make sure to Kino and ecalate the situation. (This MUST be appropriate. If you do it inappropriately after a few drinks, she will think you are groping her).

    If there is music, your hand on the small of her back, as you lean in and speak directly into her ear is an easy way to Kino.
    Also arm around her while talking to her, Hug hello, all that kind of stuff.

    She is in your social group, and at your party so this definitely gives you an advantage. She already likes you by the sound of it, so its not like you have to do anything incredibally special... Just dont fuck up.
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    It's your birthday, your party you should be the main man. Use that to your advantage.
    Don't get drunk, don't forget to make sure your other friends are also having a good time and not just she. Don't be needy and clinge the whole night - that kills. Alright, enough of the don'ts. Keep building some comfort and up the tension, while mainting a playfull vibe. For example spin her around, get close then release. If she really is as interessted as you wrote, that should be enough to get you to a kiss close. Do a few "almost kisses" to build some more tension is needed. Most of all don't be scared.
    Take that as a base for the weekend, for anything else check the forums, there's plenty great advice out here.

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    Wow! Thanks for that advice. What about texting her in the mean time until the party. How should I handle that so I'm not getting friended but still she's knows I'm interested.

    -Dan

    Quote Originally Posted by Portrait View Post
    If its your party, you should take lots of opportunities to introduce her to other people, and DH Social Value whenever you can. You will know basically everyone there, so this shouldnt be too difficult.

    Make sure you dont just hover around her, and let her fend for herself a little bit in terms of the social group. Dont just babysit her all night.

    If she is already into you, at a good opportunity, get her alone, and go the K-Close. After a few drinks (not too many). Dont get way to drunk. This tends to hap
    pen when you are younger, and believe me, it is not a good look. It is usually a massive turn off for girls as well if they arent at your drunk level.

    Get some cool DHV stories going with your buddies, and make sure to Kino and ecalate the situation. (This MUST be appropriate. If you do it inappropriately after a few drinks, she will think you are groping her).

    If there is music, your hand on the small of her back, as you lean in and speak directly into her ear is an easy way to Kino.
    Also arm around her while talking to her, Hug hello, all that kind of stuff.

    She is in your social group, and at your party so this definitely gives you an advantage. She already likes you by the sound of it, so its not like you have to do anything incredibally special... Just dont fuck up.

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    I am agreed with Potrait. You like her and she likes you too then what is the problem? Shyness! forgot it for a while a just tell her about your feeling I think you will get same answer . Wish you good luck .

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    If you text her, make sure the text have a purpose. Don't just text to shoot the shit.

    If you feel like you have to talk with her, try calling. You can build a lot more comfort and report with a person via phone than you can via text.

    Don't worry about it too much. Just keep cool.
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