Framing issue, how to reply to the girl in this situation?

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    Framing issue, how to reply to the girl in this situation?

    While hanging out with this girl at my house, i attemmpt to frame the situation as if she is the one that is getting on to me (already got her interested, kino, etc.)

    HB: whats behind that door?
    Me: My room, can't go in. Im afraid you try to get on to me
    HB: If anything, your the one who would get on to me
    Me: You're not that special darling

    Was that a good answer in my part?
    What could i have done differently?



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    You were bantering/teasing her. It was a good reply, but personally I would of said something like "I'm more than just a piece of meat. You have to romance me first. *smileing"

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    i like how your flipping the hoop around in your favor.
    Thanks!

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    Very bad answer,
    The girl sexualized interaction and you punish it

    what happen? a lot of time to play game?
    don't like this approach at all

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    You could hv said ..sure ..I could ride you ..but can you handle it !!

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    weejonathan, i'm not sure if i understand where your coming from. I felt like i was being put in the spot so i want to flip the coin. I felt it would bail me out.
    WildTiger, when she said that to me, she sounded somewhat condescending, would your reply work even with the tone she had?

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    HB: whats behind that door?
    Me: My room, come on in, let me show you the youtube video that i mention to you eariler

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    I see whats on your mind. Then work of her sitting in your room...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBoss93 View Post
    I see whats on your mind. Then work of her sitting in your room...
    YES sir, try it cuz it works better

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    Will do! Thanks!

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