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So I met this guy during spring break and we became ...
What should I do?
So I met this guy during spring break and we became fast friends. After spring break we went back to our normal schedule of school but we kept in touch with the occasional text messages, meeting for lunch and school activities. We kept up with text messaging each other almost daily except whenever work or school interfered. Our text messages usually consist of random topics and what we are up to and so forth.
Three weeks ago he tells me he is going out of state to do some research and asks me if i want to hang out with him before he leaves and of course I say yes. So we went out on a friday to a place of my choice (he had me pick) and we had a good time.
We've texted after he left, and on occasions I have told him that I like him, but I don't know if he thinks I'm playing around or not. Everytime I do tell him that I do like him his response is usually "damn right".
I don't know if I should ask him whether he likes me or not. I know we are friends and I really enjoy our sometimes meaningless conversations (when we joke around) so I don't want to do anything to make our friendship different from what it currently is. Any advice?
are you telling him that you like him in a serious matter or would you say it sounds jokingly ?
I've said it both in a serious manner and goofing around, but usually when we are goofing off.
What do you wanna get from this guy. Some sort of Validation that he likes you back? Is he coming back to where you live?
I want to know if there is any possibility that he is interested in me. He is coming back in a couple of months.
Is there any Kino, teasing?
Have you done anything sexual?
Are you a good looking girl, and someone he would usually be attracted to (looks matter a lot if a girl is getting LJBF)
If you are an attractive woman, and attracted to him, I would ramp up the Kino a lot when you are next together. Give him lots of IOI's and if he isnt retarded he will get the picture.
He may just be shy, and not confident enough to initiate first... Dont be afraid to do this. I know personally, and a lot of my friends, would be very turned on by a girl who initiates the sexual escalation.
Obviously there will be a possibility he is interested... you have boobs, and a vagina.
Dont worry about ruining the relationship. if a girl confessed her undying love for me, I would still hang out with her, and probably wouldnt treat her any differently... Might just tease her more, thats about it. I dont think you have much to lose by going for it.
Unless youre a stage 5 Clinger in which case I'd ignore you if I was him.