Date Beautiful Women 4.2.1
Results 1 to 7 of 7
Discuss What should I do? at the The 18-21 Forum within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; What should I do? So I met this guy during spring break and we became ...
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Gender:
    Posts
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    What should I do?

    So I met this guy during spring break and we became fast friends. After spring break we went back to our normal schedule of school but we kept in touch with the occasional text messages, meeting for lunch and school activities. We kept up with text messaging each other almost daily except whenever work or school interfered. Our text messages usually consist of random topics and what we are up to and so forth.

    Three weeks ago he tells me he is going out of state to do some research and asks me if i want to hang out with him before he leaves and of course I say yes. So we went out on a friday to a place of my choice (he had me pick) and we had a good time.

    We've texted after he left, and on occasions I have told him that I like him, but I don't know if he thinks I'm playing around or not. Everytime I do tell him that I do like him his response is usually "damn right".

    I don't know if I should ask him whether he likes me or not. I know we are friends and I really enjoy our sometimes meaningless conversations (when we joke around) so I don't want to do anything to make our friendship different from what it currently is. Any advice?



  2. #2
    Join Date
    Oct 2011
    Gender:
    Location
    San Juan, Texas, United States
    Age
    21
    Posts
    58
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    are you telling him that you like him in a serious matter or would you say it sounds jokingly ?

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Gender:
    Posts
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    I've said it both in a serious manner and goofing around, but usually when we are goofing off.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Gender:
    Location
    Middle of Nowhere, Wyoming
    Age
    27
    Posts
    77
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    What do you wanna get from this guy. Some sort of Validation that he likes you back? Is he coming back to where you live?
    Got Life?

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Gender:
    Posts
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    I want to know if there is any possibility that he is interested in me. He is coming back in a couple of months.

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Gender:
    Age
    25
    Posts
    902
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 26 Times in 23 Posts
    Mentioned
    3 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Is there any Kino, teasing?

    Have you done anything sexual?

    Are you a good looking girl, and someone he would usually be attracted to (looks matter a lot if a girl is getting LJBF)


    If you are an attractive woman, and attracted to him, I would ramp up the Kino a lot when you are next together. Give him lots of IOI's and if he isnt retarded he will get the picture.

    He may just be shy, and not confident enough to initiate first... Dont be afraid to do this. I know personally, and a lot of my friends, would be very turned on by a girl who initiates the sexual escalation.

    Obviously there will be a possibility he is interested... you have boobs, and a vagina.


    Dont worry about ruining the relationship. if a girl confessed her undying love for me, I would still hang out with her, and probably wouldnt treat her any differently... Might just tease her more, thats about it. I dont think you have much to lose by going for it.

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Gender:
    Location
    Middle of Nowhere, Wyoming
    Age
    27
    Posts
    77
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Unless youre a stage 5 Clinger in which case I'd ignore you if I was him.
    Got Life?

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  • Forum Rules



Facebook  Twitter