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    Having Difficulty Transitioning from Openers

    Hey all,

    Me and my buddy are pretty new to the game and we went out for our first real night of sarging last night. We went to the club/bar at our uni and opened about 4 sets, each of varying sizes, with opinion openers, but ended up having most of them go nowhere because we couldn't find something to continue the conversation with. I know you're supposed to find something in what they say to continue the conversation, so any tips on ways to steer the conversation into something that we can use?



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    Well what are you saying to the women first off?

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    when any girl answers, better if its the hottest girl, but when one girl is answering just start to smile 2 seconds in, when they finish what they are saying look at her friends and ask them; is she drunk? but ALWAYS have a smile on and make sure your tone is right so they know your joking..
    .field tested btw. now you transition into attraction. E.G The reason im asking you guys is because this happened to me the other day. (dhv story)


    i used this many times on single girls;
    me: hey, i need your honest opinion real quick
    hb: okay
    me: do you think this shirt/tie/hat/shoe/belt make my ass look big?
    hb: no or yes (whatever the fuck they say)
    me: oh my god, you were checking me out weren't you! i totally caught you (laugh when saying it with smile the whole time)
    hb: if they say maybe or yes, (introduce yourself and take her aside and start building more attraction)
    hb: if they are bitchy and say no!!
    me: hey listen, the real reason i came to YOU was because i knew that you and me, we would never get along. but hey before i go, pick a number in your head from 1 - 4. guess 3, if its wrong say your probably broken (pretend to fix her by touching your fingers on her arm for intro to keno) then say, okay! fixed, now pick a number from 1 - 10. guess 7. (ty Mystery both works for me 80% of the time) if you guess the right number on the first try, do the second one, and if your right again! the better, but if your wrong the second time do the finger repair. lol
    hb: how did you do that?
    me: i fixed you, now we can start over (put your hand out and introduce yourself)
    if shes still a bitch NEXT!

    hope this helps
    Saaall good.

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    This may help you out a bit 10 Deadly Sins of Transitioning.
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    And remember, if all else fails in set just try this, works everytime.

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    k to be straight up, the whole 'openers' and bla bla seem to be inneffective in a college bar setting.

    just be fun, without being to gamey.

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    Once you hook them, become a bit more normal and reduce the energy level. Begin to talk to them like anyone else. Talk about whatever is on your mind with total conviction, self-belief, self-amusement.

    Use routines when you suspect they are bored, when attention levels are swaying, to create attraction spikes, to re-establish dominance, etc.

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    Yeah...you should do routines only when she fails one of your compliance tests, but just to make sure...you should memorize some small, efective words, wich you put into context through A2 and A3, like some compliments about her character, her energy...it'l be like...you have in your mind: your awsome! 'ha ha...just kidiin', 'i feel good around you ! too bad your not my type', you seem to to be a person that realy knows what she wants', 'you have alot of positive energy'...etc...Each time you say one of these, it needs to be folowed by some bla bla...and wait for her to response, eather god or bad...but 95% respond god, cuz your in A3 allready...To be short, from my opinion is best to determine strict bariers betwin A1, A2 and A3 and make it like a game...do a routine(learned) in eache...than when she complies just smile and go in your mind...neext ! and to the other...NEVER FAILES !

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    Quote Originally Posted by schoolboy View Post
    k to be straight up, the whole 'openers' and bla bla seem to be inneffective in a college bar setting.

    just be fun, without being to gamey.
    Come on man, what you are saing is true...i started collage at 18yro and now i'm 23 and still in 2nd year ) it's fun playng game on college girls but you have to admit that there are som opinion oppeners that realy do magic on college girls, folowed by the proper bodylanguage

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    Quote Originally Posted by motings View Post
    when any girl answers, better if its the hottest girl, but when one girl is answering just start to smile 2 seconds in, when they finish what they are saying look at her friends and ask them; is she drunk? but ALWAYS have a smile on and make sure your tone is right so they know your joking..
    .field tested btw. now you transition into attraction. E.G The reason im asking you guys is because this happened to me the other day. (dhv story)


    i used this many times on single girls;
    me: hey, i need your honest opinion real quick
    hb: okay
    me: do you think this shirt/tie/hat/shoe/belt make my ass look big?
    hb: no or yes (whatever the fuck they say)
    me: oh my god, you were checking me out weren't you! i totally caught you (laugh when saying it with smile the whole time)
    hb: if they say maybe or yes, (introduce yourself and take her aside and start building more attraction)
    hb: if they are bitchy and say no!!
    me: hey listen, the real reason i came to YOU was because i knew that you and me, we would never get along. but hey before i go, pick a number in your head from 1 - 4. guess 3, if its wrong say your probably broken (pretend to fix her by touching your fingers on her arm for intro to keno) then say, okay! fixed, now pick a number from 1 - 10. guess 7. (ty Mystery both works for me 80% of the time) if you guess the right number on the first try, do the second one, and if your right again! the better, but if your wrong the second time do the finger repair. lol
    hb: how did you do that?
    me: i fixed you, now we can start over (put your hand out and introduce yourself)
    if shes still a bitch NEXT!

    hope this helps
    I'm lost. What the hell is the finger repair?
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