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Day 2ed this girl I met online...she's a hot ...
A problem in day 2 land...maybe?
Day 2ed this girl I met online...she's a hot fucking girl! The typical type where she's used to guys kissing her ass and sucking up to her. The whole day we met up (spur of the moment thing) she was pushing to meet up while I actually did have things going on right then, decided to take advantage of the fact and make her hold out a little.
She meets me at my place, I bring her inside for a minute and we leave. I joke on her, bust her balls, pull her close to me by the waist and push her away. I tell her I've got errands to run and she's tagging along (she had to be at work in a few hours) We end the night at a burrito bar where we actually have a normal conversation about where she's from and just life in general. We go back to my place where we have an hour before she has to leave. I show her some videos of past fights I've had and pictures from my last deployment that she thought was the coolest thing ever. She showed me videos of her from her phone of when she was all drunk one night running amock. She's laying down on my bed, I'm sitting next to her watching the videos with my arm around her, escalating kino the whole time, but I could tell she was not there for the kiss. We start wrestling around and I end up on top of her but kind of on my knees with her legs intertwined with mine if that makes sense. She had to leave shortly after for work, no point in escalating much more, I walk her out to her car, we hug and she tells me she had a great time. She texts me later to say the same and apologized for punching me in my already fucked up ribs.
I tried texting her sunday first adressing her by bigfoot and asking if she was hunting for easter eggs. No response. I honestly can't tell if I fucked up or not. I did what every other guy is not doing, and treated her in a way she thoroughly enjoyed. No kiss close. Is it too early that I'm worrying something may have fucked up here? She was obviously very comfortable for me and I made sure to turn the conversation sexual on the way home, so I really don't think it could be I was being "too nice" Any thoughts on this read?
i dont think you did anythign wrong. has she texted you back since?
I did reinitiate contact a few days later...she did say she was talking to someone else in which I responded "thats great...he can keep you busy when I'm not around" and teased her a little bit and then told her she needs to stop texting me and go to work. She said something along the lines of "lol, okay I'll ttyl silly" usually namecalling like silly etc usually means theres still interest. I did text her today just saying "hey goofball" but got no response. I'm probably just going to keep in contact with her from time to time and probably try and close later on. I guess I was honestly just worried that maybe I failed by not kissing
I loved the whole "that's great, he can keep you busy when I'm not around" part, it's deffo something I'm going to use in the future good work, BUT, why text her the next day? You set a tone in which you're alpha you don't kiss ass so stay congruent, she prob would've texted you later seeing you're the comfortable-dude-who-is-fun-and-sexy, other guy would have screwed up quick, guess who she woulda come running to and invested more in?
I don't know if I screwed up what I wrote, but no she texted me a little bit after she left my place saying she had fun etc. I texted her like 2 or 3 days later. Its a new policy I've instilled...I'll only text every other day or so if its going real good and maybe a bit more time if not...unless of course they initiate contact. But seriously if I would like to park my beef bus in tuna town, now knowing she's talking to some dude...I guess I know how to do this but would just like suggestions on how to close with her. Somehow she seems like a girl that is quite willing to please...and young and naive
Kino the fuck out of her, tease her, make 1 sex joke which evolves into sex being a comfortable subject into you experimenting her with roleplay and teasing (after ofc asking questions about her sex life, which in turn will get u questions which you will answer to as some sex boss son of a mofo bitch). I dunno itll flow naturally as long as you kino and tease.
Example: What about you how was you sex life with your ex?
You: We were very active until the neighbors living beneath us complained from leakage and flood from the room upstairs.
You: We were active until I read it isnt healthy for a girl to orgasm 5 times in 10 seconds
You: We were active until she kept yelling out 'Zeus' and 'Jupiter' when I kept having to remind her that I was Con
....................Well not that far ofcourse just get comfortable, show her it's cool between you guys to be kinkily open, even tell her embaressing moments with you and other girls in the sack.
dont be ignorant. if she is talking to another guy clearly he is alpha. why would the other guy be beta .... do hb 10's interact with beta's or do they ignore beta's ....
Originally Posted by Xai
think about that.
Cool story bro...
Originally Posted by schoolboy
Nobody said she did, and if she did (new guy always beats guy before him, rule #69) in which talking to the girl would only turn her off more and throw her to new guy, best thing to do is use it as an opportunity show to consistency and wait till new better dude is out the picture, she comes running to chilled out first dude who showed he isn't needy as he probably took the time to meet another hot girl.
P.S: there is no such a thing as rule #69 herp derp
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