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    Every time you start thinking about her, change the thought. Think about YOU and what you are doing right now, how that will help you to become a better person. It will take effort. It will help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boston_019 View Post
    No contact.

    Skydive.

    GFTOW.
    YES, Sky Dive

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    Quote Originally Posted by 20three View Post
    Every time you start thinking about her, change the thought. Think about YOU and what you are doing right now, how that will help you to become a better person. It will take effort. It will help.

    Every time.
    Whenever I think about an Ex I like to think about all of her bad qualities and why we broke up. Nostalgia generally puts your ex in a good light, so use logic to reinforce why she's an evil bitch.

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    Well friend of mine is trying to get over his ex in fcking 3 years now :O I dont want that shit...

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    Quote Originally Posted by badhero View Post
    Well friend of mine is trying to get over his ex in fcking 3 years now :O I dont want that shit...
    Sadly, it took me about that long to get over my "first love", and I'm the one who broke up with her! I look back on all of that wasted time and wish I could go back there and kick myself!

    As others have said, whenever she comes into your thoughts, make it a point to think about something else. You can't always choose what pops into your mind, but you can choose whether or not to keep thinking about it. The only thing that will help you get over her completely is when you find a better girl to replace her. In the mean time, make yourself the best person you can be so that when this better girl does come along, you will be in a position to keep her. Work out, focus on hobbies (if you don't have any, now is the time to get one....plus women find it attractive when you have a true passion), hang out with friends, climb a mountain and meet other women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by badhero View Post
    Well friend of mine is trying to get over his ex in fcking 3 years now :O I dont want that shit...
    Your friend is so beta he's gamma. Worry about your own shit. Lick your wounds, skip gaming altogether for a while. Go to the driving range and hit a few buckets of balls. Skydive. Go fishing. Do YOU stuff, you know?
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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    Write a list of what you would like to do. What matters to you. Hobbies, interests, work that you see in your personal image. And START to do all of them. You DON'T have a girlfriend any more so you have all the time in the world and no one to tell you that you can't do any of it. Keep your self busy. Don't contact her.

    You don't have to go out and get a one-night stand to get over a girl. Just go out with an open attitude and work one making your game tight again. Your single

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    Quote Originally Posted by badhero View Post
    Hi, well what is the fastest way to forget ex? we broke up officialy for like 4 month ago, but hucked up like 6 weeks ago and tryed to get all back for like 2 weeks, then she said at it wont work coz she have to go to other country for like 4 months and etc (like blablabla my heart wants you but my mind tells me not too), at first I was like ok, was ready to w8 until she comes back, we didnt talked for like 3 weeks, and then I just asked her if she did leave yet? She answered * No * , and then we had a short conversation what did rly fcking hert me, rly bad, I want to forget her and MOVE on as fast as I can, any advise?
    P.S. she was kinda my first love, but no dont think about me that way, I had like 10 girls before her but never had same feelings :P
    P.s.s. sorry for bad english.
    It sounds like the recent contact w/ her was more of a setback, and on top of that, wasn't honest with you about leaving. Don't expect most women you date to be completely honest with you right off the bat. You're seeing the best side of them in the beginning. It's nice when they can be consistently like that, but few ever are.

    It'll take some time to get over her, but you prob. won't get back into a relationship right away. There's things you'll miss about it, but the more dates you're on, the more fun you'll have. Expect nothing and everything, but don't take any of it too serious or too personal. The one or two that you seem to be getting along with the best, see how it goes over a few months.

    It should be real easy to move on from someone who wasn't honest with you.

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    Well I find out rly alot of things abot her, no she wasent honest with me, she betrayed me, she now in a relationship with other guy and etc, and actualy I dont rly give a fuck about her :O I dont miss her! I miss old her who I can't get back, and doing my best to dont think about her(not her now, her in the past).
    But there is other question, I did begin to like other girl, but still have goddamn big feelings for ex, is it ok if I will at least try something with her? I rly liked her, and dont want to just fuck it up.

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    I did begin to like other girl, but still have goddamn big feelings for ex, is it ok if I will at least try something with her? I rly liked her, and dont want to just fuck it up.
    It's more than okay. GO. DO IT! Just don't go falling in love...not yet anyway.

    And skydiving is fucking awesome!

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