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    Guy Tried To Holla At My Gal Behind My Back

    How should an Alpha male have handled this situation?

    I was bowling with a girl (gamed very well and loves my draws, but not girlfriend.. yet) and I went into the bathroom. She waited outside. While I was in there pee'ing, I thought I heard her talking. Anyways, so I come back out and we start walking towards the exit and she laughs and tells me how this guy tried to holla at her and asked her 'if I was her man' and 'pointed to his phone for her number', she didn't give it to him. I turned and looked, but the other guy clearly turned back around and tried to look like he was bowling the entire time I was in the bathroom.

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    I chuckled it off and joked it off like it didn't phase me. My thoughts: an Alpha male wouldn't feel threatened by that.

    But later she jokingly mentioned why didn't I go beat him up. This was after I brought up a joke about how she wouldn't fight another female over me when we saw some jacked female bodybuilder earlier that week.

    So I question: Should or would a true Alpha male have said anything to him? I could see how it was dis-respectful on being so sly and sneaky behind my back, but he also cowardly turned and 'tried' not to look when I looked over there.



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    You did the right thing. Talking to the guy would be DLV. He approached and blew himself out, big deal. A hot girl will always get hit on by random men. If you're confident in yourself, those men are not a threat, so you don't need to bother acknowledging them. The only time you should step in is if the guy starts getting physical or verbally abusive towards your gf.

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    You handled the situation perfectly. No need to talk to him. He already got blown out.

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    Of course an Alpha Male would've just brushed it off - he wouldn't even remember the event long enough to post about it on here.
    "The mind only acts as an enemy for those who do not control it."

    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

    Here's how I see it:

    Men act, women react. Don't take the woman's role.

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    Just laugh it off. An alpha makes a decision and sticks by it. Your indecision comes across as weakness, which is present in your body language. A subtle downward look or hunching of the shoulders speaks tomes.

    If that was me I would have just given a sharp look in his direction, pulled an unimpressed face and walked off. That guy is no threat. This was most definitely not worth getting into a fight over- the girl just wanted it to put coal to her ego fire.

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    You did well young Jedi.

    No other man deserves your attention until such a time as he is disrespecting you or her. His hitting on her, despite feeling odd, is actually a compliment on your ability to pull this woman.

    Also, she showed loyalty to you, so she might want something committed. Maybe. The question about fighting him could be a shit test or it could be her way of getting a read on the depth of your interest in her.
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