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    What should I tell her?

    I agreed to go to prom with my friends' cousin who I have never met. She wanted to go because she already had a dress and she couldn't go to her school's prom. My friends tried to set us up and I said I would go. I added her on facebook and chatted with her to confirm that we were going together. Yesterday I saw that we were both online at the same time, so I sent her a message using chat and she didn't respond. I sent her another message today using chat when we were both online, and she got offline after I sent it. I would like to believe that it is just a coincidence, but I really don't think it is. She seems flakey and I could understand why. Going to prom at another school would be a big commitment for someone to make if they don't even know the person they are going with. So I was thinking of sending her a private message and asking if she actually wants to go, and telling her it is okay if she doesn't bc I can find someone else to go with. I just need to know now so that I don't waste anymore time. Does this seem like a good idea?



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    she doesn't know you right? so she's not interested in long conversations or private messages. i would just take to that prom and get to know her there. she told you she would come, so don't worry.

    don't write that message about you having other girls to go with etc.; even if you do, it'll look insecure. why bother if she's flaky, when there are so many other girls in your life right?

    have fun.

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    But I have to give her a form to fill out because she is from a different school, and I cannot arrange a meeting if she doesn't feel like talking

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    did you tell her it's about this form? text her casually, tell her this needs to be done and you have to meet. if she's not responding, don't ask her, whether she really wants to go or not. rather tell her that you changed your mind, because she didn't answer.

    good luck

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    Agreed with aydan. If you can't get in contact with her the next best thing is to just give the form to your fried to give to her. I wouldn't try getting to know her via facebook/text or even at all until the night of prom but thats just me.

    Give us a field report with the results on prom

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    I will definitely post a fr of the prom night. Thanks for all the help

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    I sent her a message saying: "I have a paper you need to fill out for prom, so we should meet up later this week. My number --> ********** " she responded: "alright sweet!! I'll text ya when I get back to the house "
    My question is what would be a good day2? I was thinking either dinner at Cici's pizza or a bonfire at my house. I think it would be easier to build attraction if we were isolated at cici's because there would no one to compete with. Some of my friends might try to compete with me at the bonfire and I don't want to go through all of that. But because it's my party I might automatically be the highest value person there. What do you think?

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