Discuss Problem: My friends GF at the The 18-21 Forum within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; #5 sounds pretty good. If you really want this girl (and you're not a shitty ...
#5 sounds pretty good. If you really want this girl (and you're not a shitty friend) wait until they break up. Wait a couple weeks and talk to your friend and tell him that you and A have really vibed well and you're thinking about dating her, and that you came to tell him first.
- dating a girl on the rebound is a bad idea
- sex is way hotter when you cheat, so being in a relationship with her won't be as hot
- you'll be dating a girl who has cheated on boyfriends :/ (she could cheat on you)
Yo, I don't mean to be rude and this is my first post...
It seems like you're using the Captain Save a Hoe excuse to dick your friend over. Stay the hell away from that girl. Bros before hoes.
First, you need to make your own ethic code and morals. The set of rules you live by, and stick with it. Don't come to an online forum to look for approval, that 'aint good.
Second, while I've been in similar situations, I would never go for a friends gf, or a gf of someone I know, even if I don't like him. Yes I've been with girls who had a bf, but one that I don't know. My rules are that I can test drive 'em, but don't sign a financing contract. Going for others guys gf thinking she is relationship material is a huge mistake, but you will realize that sooner or later.
I've almost got arrested once, and had to pay thousands in legal fees and damages, because that girl who I thought loved me got back with her ex, and at the moment of truth she gave all my info.
Was it worthy, NO.
Did I learn my lesson? Yes.
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follow your heart bro. a soul mate will last yrs longer than a d-bag friend.
Stay away from her, you're being a huge pussy about this entire thing. It won't look good on you down the road to get into this situation more than you already are...in fact, you've done more than you should have. Shouldn't have been 1 on 1 with her, mistake. If she leaves her BF, fine, fair game I guess, frankly that even depends on your social circle and the damage it would do there. Don't underestimate the lack of trust this could put on you.
There are millions of girls who aren't dating your friends, even if its a DB friend, which I'm sure he is...you're also being a DB friend.
I say: reevaluate, if friend is worth it. Some "friends" aren't really your friends and you're better off without them in the first place (learned the hard way), so it's clearly fair game. Some are gold, and if he was one, shit to her, but great to YOU, I wouldn't do it.
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