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    Damn!!

    So me and 2 of my friends (not the best naturals, but they get chicks now and then) figgured we where going out on party. So they found out where it was and we where going there to get some chicks. So we took the boat (took 2 hours to get there). Anyways, I WAS in good mood (1 girl I had in a3 was there and 1 that I have in a2) anyways, I was going to be with the one in a3. But, first I had to pay for the gas for the boat. It was okay, until I saw how much I had to pay. Well, I'm 18, I don't have a job. So 200NOK is a bit much.
    Anyways, I just forgot it, but my male friends where totally ass with me (they are sometimes) though, I showed them who was the boss. They can't just walk over me! Anyways, they got normal after that. And we had fun in the boat. But then we came to the party. I looked at all the people there. Ok, I was the OLDEST one there. I'm 18, and it was a bunch of 14 and 15 year olds. And 4 or 5 16 year old. I was like "what the fuck am I doing here?!". The one I have in a3 is 15, but I don't care about if SHE is. Anyways, I got pretty "uppsett" so I just got in a really bad mood. So I didn't talk much at all there. Well, talked to my friends that I went with and some girls but I didn't engage, they opened me all the time it looked like. With some lame things, haha, I just looked at them sarcastically(spelled?).
    I got a bunch of looks from this girl(that I have in a3), and I just pretended I didn't see her . I don't know why, it was just the mood I was in, and she was in "her" group. So I left there without saying a word to her, and not to look at her. I think I didn't have enough confidence to talk to her actually. I've talked to her once when I was drunk on a party, but I've mostly talked to her on phone and on msn.
    Anyways, my question is. I don't have a clue if she will invest more time in me anymore. And I don't have a clue what I will say to her when she asks why I didn't talk to her. I am afraid I've fucked this up this time. The worst of it is that I actually think it's a big deal, because I'm still a virgin, and I know that I can get this girl easy. I know what to do, and all. But now I'm totally stuck.
    Help would be apprechiated.
    -Fean



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    If I was in the same scenario I would just drop her and move on because getting too worked up about 1 girl is not worth it, but lets see some of the possibilities:
    -I would say I was hung over and felt shitty and didnt wanna go over and end up throwing up all over her friends. (in a joking way) Then proceed by telling her when I'm busy and when I can hang out (hang out in like 3 days). If you seem busy most of the time the girl will most likely go out with you when you have time and just game as though the event never happend.
    -Or you could say that you don't need to excuse yourself for your actions.
    -Or you could say some story like the government is watching you and you had to avoid contact with her to protect her and act as though it is completely the truth.
    The best responses are the cocky/funny ones.
    But if she doesnt bring it up than you shouldnt either. Just try to forget it.
    Hope I helped somehow.

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    What he said ^^
    And stop worrying about one girl. Stop thinking about it, stop posting about it and go and find ten other girls to get to A3 with.
    Then you'll have eleven to worry about, but you'll find that because there's eleven of them, you won't give a SHIT if one of them doesn't work out.
    And paradoxically, if you don't give a shit whether they work out or not...you'll find they tend to work out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iceman
    And paradoxically, if you don't give a shit whether they work out or not...you'll find they tend to work out.
    People conform. They conform to what society says they should look like, what they should say, do, act, etc. Its boring!!
    Now you come along, you dont give a shit. You hae the choice, the freedom NOT TO GIVE A SHIT!!! girls are attracted to guys who can just shrug things away. Its a breathe of freash air to them but in saying that dont be a dick who doesnt give a shit for nothing and no one, you have to have SOME morals and values. Dont just shrug everything off, a little responsibilty is attractive to. You need a balance
    What i said plus what Iceman and Youngin said
    Peace dude im off down the gym.....oooooooooo feel the burn
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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoRising
    Peace dude im off down the gym.....oooooooooo feel the burn
    "I don't know if you heard me counting, I did over a thousand"

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    "What in the hell is diversity?"
    "Well I could be wrong but I believe its a large wooden ship... used during the civil war era..."
    Haha, think we can all learn something from Ron Burgundy.
    good posts on the topic all around.
    "Think of your dick as a bus, even a small bus is a big bus, you know?"

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    Keep it on topic guys.
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    Can't help myself Gameboy

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    Gameboy, I'm pretty sure what happend here is that we have answered this thread pretty thoroughly, so now were just quoting anchorman, but im serious when I say that Ron Burgundy is the essence of cool.
    "Think of your dick as a bus, even a small bus is a big bus, you know?"

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