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    Girlfriend's Best Friend is a Guy

    Hey guys, I'll keep it short and simple.
    My girlfriend of 9 months has a best friend, who is a guy.
    She used to really like him but he ended up going out with one of her girl friends.
    Now he has broken up with his girlfriend, and because we are currently in a LDR, they are constantly together.
    They make waffles together in the morning, they drive home together from school, they hang out on the weekends. She tells me all this and doesn't hide anything from me (or so I think, right).

    Anyway, they have never hooked up but I am sure there is some sexual tension.
    It bugs me not being the only guy in her life that she has this kind of relationship with.
    I have told her that it bugs me and that it makes me jealous, and she has been very defensive over my reaction, saying "if I wanted to be with him, I would be, but at the end of the day I'm with you."This is true but I cant get over the jealousy. Today she told me that this weekend she is going on a ski trip with this guy friend and some of his friends and she wants to get drunk.
    Fuck.

    What do you guys think I should do/how should I react?



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    Quote Originally Posted by BigKidFun View Post
    Hey guys, I'll keep it short and simple.
    My girlfriend of 9 months has a best friend, who is a guy.
    She used to really like him but he ended up going out with one of her girl friends.
    Now he has broken up with his girlfriend, and because we are currently in a LDR, they are constantly together.
    They make waffles together in the morning, they drive home together from school, they hang out on the weekends. She tells me all this and doesn't hide anything from me (or so I think, right).

    Anyway, they have never hooked up but I am sure there is some sexual tension.
    It bugs me not being the only guy in her life that she has this kind of relationship with.
    I have told her that it bugs me and that it makes me jealous, and she has been very defensive over my reaction, saying "if I wanted to be with him, I would be, but at the end of the day I'm with you."This is true but I cant get over the jealousy. Today she told me that this weekend she is going on a ski trip with this guy friend and some of his friends and she wants to get drunk.
    Fuck.

    What do you guys think I should do/how should I react?
    I think you should speak up and tell her how u feel about the situation.. that you dont want her to go period if she has any respect towards ur feelings on the matter..
    I sure as hell would not let my bf go if he was in that same situation..
    He has\had [not sure] a bff who was a girl but it wasnt anything romantic.. they just hung out a lot.. and as soon as i joined the picture I got all the attention and it brought problems.. at the end it came down to her or me.. Relationships are monogamous.. and communication is important.. if u feel this way then u need to take action..

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexyb0ri View Post
    I think you should speak up and tell her how u feel about the situation.. that you dont want her to go period if she has any respect towards ur feelings on the matter..
    I sure as hell would not let my bf go if he was in that same situation..
    He has\had [not sure] a bff who was a girl but it wasnt anything romantic.. they just hung out a lot.. and as soon as i joined the picture I got all the attention and it brought problems.. at the end it came down to her or me.. Relationships are monogamous.. and communication is important.. if u feel this way then u need to take action..
    I understand your point, but to give her an ultimatum regarding other men would come off as insecure. I took an approach last night where I let nothing she said phase me, and I had her back in no time. I think I have answered my own question through my own trial and error. This being said, I do not think the problem is exactly fixed, but it seems like something I should really talk to her about in person rather than over the phone.

    Thanks for the response.

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    That is exactly right I hope things work out

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