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About a month ago there was this ...
Something that happened a month ago. Need opinions!
About a month ago there was this Electronic Music night here where I live. A sea of people. I'm just moving through the crowd dancing with my buddies, messing around, fist pumping, jumping, there's people crowd surfing, hell of a time. So as I'm moving around I spot this girl...she's just there dancing with another girlfriend of hers but I can tell she's DYIINNGG to dance with a guy. So I go behind her and start getting closer and out of no where we just start grinding like fucking minks. I start holding her hand and then she takes me hand and puts it on her legs, I start grabbing her tighter, grabbing her ass...anything you can imagine really without actually getting it on right then and there. We dance for about 30 minutes straight, I realize my friends that I came there with are leaving so we had to depart. I told her I was leaving, hugged her, got her name and school she goes to. The next day I facebook her and find her. Add her. She remembers me right away. It went a little something like this
Her: You're the guy I danced with towards the end right
Me: Yup I believe so
Her: You were the best one of the night, but listen I have to go to a friend's house, Can I get your phone number? Here's mine
I get her number and we text for the whole night. Random shit, about her job, how weird it is that our birthday's are a day apart and both of our numbers start with 706. I do a few negs and she doesn't text back at around 3. I wake up in the morning and text her something like
"Good morning...I think I fell asleep on you last night?"
she texts back "Good morning and shut up! I know I fell asleep on YOU and I'm sorry. Forgive me?"
She's practically melting in my hands right now haha
we talk about stuff and she keeps telling me how she's lonely and all this stuff. But then she see's that I have a girlfriend...yea I know...I'm bit of an asshole of doing any of this in the first place while with someone, but we were in the middle of a fight and it was a fun night. When she finds out she sends me a text with something like this
"...of course you have a girlfriend...*sigh*" and we just end up talking about that for a while and after that she hasn't texted me back at all. I don't know what to do. I'm POSITIVE that I could get her back where I had her within minutes but is it worth it? It would be nice having someone there to have some fun with and just hang out, she's a really cool girl and a solid 7 but she seems just way too much into me and clingy. What should I do?
hahahahah, LMFAO! I seriously fell off my chair when I read that you have a gf!!! Well played man,, I mean I don't agree with ppl that its good to cheat on your gf... But I do agree that you shouldn't ever LTR only MLTR's sooo "hey babe.. Me and my gf just broke up over that fight we had... I'm kinda heartbroken and I would really use a 'friend' right now. X", see how much she's into you by meeting her/her response... And then decide which one is a better gf Or if you can introduce them, get your MLTR-on Edit: P.S. Don't fuck up your relationship even further by forgetting to delete those messages from your phone.. She'll get really pissed if she finds out your texting somuch with 1 chick, while your in a figt/this/that etc. GL bro!
lol ye nice twist with the GF thing, I agree with Daze Perdurabo, you should delete those text messages unless she never checks your phone. You could also consider get two phones/numbers if you're considering MLTR's.
Anyway about the girl, ye she's into you alot, comes over a bit needy imo. She's talking about how she's alone and acting dissapointed when she founds out you have a girlfriend and giving a cheesy line: Ofcourse you have a girlfriend...
but ye she sounds like a girl who is looking for something more serious. Just try to meet her and just continue gaming her, don't know why you are asking for advice, sounds like the girl is yours anyway.
Altough your GF could be a problem.
BUT watch out you said you comes over clingy and needy aswell, this could be the kind of girl that get's into stalker mode and starts sending facebook messages to your current girlfriend :P
Well I just came here to ask what you guys think as to weather or not I should just let her go or text her every now and then.(in case I start considering MLTR) I'm still with the girlfriend and things are going good, but she has left me before at the peak of past relationship. I know stupid that I went back to her but she's a 9 and a really cool girl. I guess what I really wanna know is if I should keep the girl I met as a "back-up" or if that's a bad idea?
And Glad I could make you laugh Daze! haha It is pretty damn funny when I look back at it now haha I'm pretty sure the girl I'm with right now is a better girlfriend but like I said up there keeping another girl around if things get rough isn't a bad idea...or is it?
It's a great Idea man, but don't keep her on a string... Because that's just wrong, and not to mention mean. Maybe tell her that you 9gf fucked you over alot in the past, but because of certain complications you can't really break up right now, but also that you want the other girl... She might be interested in an affaire. But for now, and for a not tooo longgg time, it won't hurt anyone if you just keep in contact with her. Maybe tell her about gf issues, that will help you two bond if your looking for that type of thing.
Already did that. I was like "Yea me and my girlfriend are on and off A LOT, when its on its really good but when its off its horrible" and she responded with "Wow. That's just wrong, you're too sweet to let that happen to yourself. You need a relationship where it'll always be "on" " It's clear she wants me...after a while I tried to ignore the whole my gf issues...It seems like she isn't the type to have an affair or anything like that she just REALLY wants to be with me lol Maybe ask her to hang out again or something?
OHHHH, ANNND another thing...haha I have another question about something that happened that night. Me and my friends met up with some girls that we knew...I only really hung out with the blonde HB7 twice but I did have her friend HB8 brunette added on fb. So we meet up with them at the beginning of the night, I don't even pay attention to the HB8 and just casually talk to the group and a little bit to the HB7, blowing my whistle and sh*t (It was a rave, cut me some slack) making an a** out of myself and me and my friends leave. Then in the middle of the night we see them again and the HB7 starts talking to me again and asks to borrow my whistle so I agree and give it to her then I notice the HB8 is looking at me and..
she goes "Did you just give her your whistle?"
Me : "Yea...so?"
She : "You know you're not gonna get it back now right?"
I just laugh and about a minute later her friend comes back and hands it to me, I just look over to her and go "Go it back" with a smirk and leave
So I dance with the girl that I was telling you about in the story above and as I'm leaving and looking for my friends I spot them again, I give the HB7 a hug and ask if they have seen my friends and...
HB8 goes: "HEYY!! How come I never get a hi or a hug"
Me: "...Oh I'm sorry, That was rude of me...come here" (and i give her a hug)
HB8: "Oh and I noticed you deleted my off of Facebook"(makes a sad face. I actually did just because of the fact that I didn't see anything going anywhere and we never talked neither did we hang out, I just added her because my best friend a few months ago was trying to get with her.)
Me: "Oh really? Yea I was deleting friends a while ago that I never talked to, but if you promise to make the effort I'll add you back"
HB8: "Deal! You better do it too!"
Me: "Don't worry, I'll do it soon enough"
and that's it....I've talked to her maybe once after that and nothing after that...She was def. giving me A LOT of IOIs but is it worth it? Like I said I do have a girlfriend but getting to know her really well and maybe hanging out a few times wouldn't hurt.
CEBD, to me it seems like your in a shitty relationship. Get out of it, there's this one girl who you speak quite highly of, you should just date her (not make her your gf, two different things), and then also see about your HB8 brunette. Seems like your quite on top of your game, Good for you man
Ahh! This girl is really pissing me off!
We had a football game at my school the other day...she goes to a different school but it was my school against hers...so she was there...but I already made plans to go to it with my girlfriend so I couldn't really approach her. I text her after the game going "Were you at the game today?" and we talk about random stuff. Her asking if i saw her and why I didn't say hi...some DHV. Anyways she starts telling me how much she misses dancing with me and how she wants to hang out. I ask her when she's free and she goes "Right now " We talk more and she just stops texting OUT OF NO WHERE! She has done this before in the past as well. Maybe she fell asleep? No, because she doesn't even text me the next day. Whenever I do text her a few days later she jumps right back into it and starts talking about how she wants me really bad and all that bullshit. What should I do? Is it too much of a bother and just give up. Or maybe wait a little bit more and when I absolutely have nothing to do, text her and try to get a quick lay?
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