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    i was wonder what advice you guys could give me for my situation. Im amazing at talking to girls online but in person im only good sometimes. what can i do to get better in person thanks



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    Stop doing online and get in the field. Its that simple.

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    Spades,
    Buddy I know it’s easy to talk to girls online as everyone is doing it, but it’s not game. It’s not even real. Even after a week, a month, or in one situation I’ve discussed with a friend 4 years of online conversation, the first meeting with a girl you’re still at A1. Everything is the same as if you were set up on a blind date from a mutual friend.

    Comfort and report are virtually impossible to build on-line. Sure this post may now become flooded with clowns going on about how to build comfort and report on-line, but beware of the Greeks bearing gift.

    This is not game.

    Many have walked the path you are about to travel if you sincerely want to fix this part of yourself. I too have done some internet dating. I’ve had something of 30 meeting with chicks on-line.

    This stage for me was immediately prior to my study of game. I’m far happier now with my strong social presence and ability to build and maintain conversation and friendship with women in this capacity. Having a strong inner game is key to having solid field skills.

    Here it is kid, DO THE NEWBIE MISSION!

    Bunny!

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    Spades i think a lot have had the problem you describe myself included.
    The answer lies with what bunny told you.
    Nothing left but to do it.

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    There are 2 things missing online.
    Voice tone and body language.
    Coincidently (sp?) enough, this two things represent 90% of the interaction among humans. It's all in the books man, go check it out.
    Work on a really alpha voice. Then on your body language. And just talk about what you talk online or fluff or whatever.
    The other difference:
    Online, you have all the time of the world to think your responses. In live, field gaming, you don't have that option. You answer or you shut up. If you doubt a SECOND about anything that conveys your personality, that's it. Your full of shit and she knows it.
    New to the forum? Welcome to the Real World


    You have to let it all go. Fear, doubt, and disbelief.
    FREE YOUR MIND.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nox
    There are 2 things missing online.
    Voice tone and body language.
    Coincidently (sp?) enough, this two things represent 90% of the interaction among humans. It's all in the books man, go check it out.
    Work on a really alpha voice. Then on your body language. And just talk about what you talk online or fluff or whatever.
    The other difference:
    Online, you have all the time of the world to think your responses. In live, field gaming, you don't have that option. You answer or you shut up. If you doubt a SECOND about anything that conveys your personality, that's it. Your full of shit and she knows it.
    Actually one more thing is missing. Social Pressure is the main factor that is added to sarging in real life, as opposed to online sarging.
    *Night

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