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    ON OVERDRIVE...I cant get out of this gear

    I talk to much when Im in set. My mouth runs constantly and wont stop. I also have problems getting her to "invest". Many times my interactions are me talking 95% of the time, her/the group listening and not really contributing to the interaction. I have not yet figured out how to really structure opportunities for her to talk or get her to qualify herself. I would be happy if I could get her to invest in the conversation even a little bit. My sets end with me feeling like I know nothing about her/the group and them knowing interesting stuff about me. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could get her/the group to invest more in the interactions? I have not figured out how to close properly either, I would be happy at this point with my sets ending with me knowing something interesting about the people I am talking to.



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    Read about mystery method and completely restructure your game (come up with some routines that involve questions and opinions). you talking to much is really your fault not the method so you have to work on that yourself. ask some questions if you feel like your talking to much?

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    Talking too much actually works to your advantage when in the attraction phase: things such as DHV stories, push-pull routines, banter, flirting, etc.

    However, when you start moving into comfort, just remember you want to be asking questions. The purpose is to find out about her. Remember: you want an air of mystery around you. Nothing kills mystery more than revealing too much about yourself.

    Know when you transition from attraction to comfort and remember to switch it up from talking to asking.

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